Question Of Morals!

Gamah

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Right say you are in a loving relationship with someone, the sex is good and regular etc, however you plan a trip to amsterdam with the mates and in the haze (;)) and booze you sleep with a hooker for a laugh/experiance.

Should you feel guilty? Technicaly I suppose you cheated in your partner but its slighty different I think if you payed for it and it was a one off thing?
 

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Gamah said:
Right say you are in a loving relationship with someone, the sex is good and regular etc, however you plan a trip to amsterdam with the mates and in the haze (;)) and booze you sleep with a hooker for a laugh/experiance.

Should you feel guilty? Technicaly I suppose you cheated in your partner but its slighty different I think if you payed for it and it was a one off thing?

Lol dont try to kid yourself, yes you should feel guilty - bad bad Gamah !
 

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What? I havn't done it :p I havn't been to Amsterdam or am planing on going there in the near future. The Ipswitch thread got me thinking about this.
 

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I think "feeling guilty" has something to do with the estimated response of your gf, you can´t look at it as an isolated incident, it´s always a reflection of the relation.
If YOU think/know that SHE will freak out if she´d know, then you will and should feel guilty. If things like this are more or less ok (and you´re leaving her the same level of freedom), then there´s no reason to feel guilty.
 

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Sure go ahead do it if you can live with yourself after it:) but imo it be like throwing a sausage up a entry:)
 

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The answer is simple, imagine what your gf would do in the same situation. Exept it's not a hooker but a stripper or something. Which makes is less sexy. Damn.
 

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I wouldn't feel guilty, but then again I wouldn't have a girl friend in the first place as I am rather emotionally disconnected.
 

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Heta said:
I wouldn't feel guilty, but then again I wouldn't have a girl friend in the first place as I am rather emotionally disconnected.

EMO!
 

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Fuck the many u can before engaging in a long term relationship -.-
 

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Yes, have sex with another person if you have GF/BF is cheating no matter the situation imo.

Thats the reason i stay single. Keep the oppretunities open :p
 

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cheating I guess..

and the hookers in Amsterdam are ugly and dirty :x
 

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I Japan it would be totally acceptable ;) So i guess it depends on which part of the world's morals you want to adapt ;)
 

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No excuse really, hardly a 'loving relationship' if this happens. And paying for it makes it laughable, hardly a mistake or one thing led to another.
 

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Urgluf said:
and the hookers in Amsterdam are ugly and dirty :x
here the keyword being dirty...


its cheating and its stupid and no excuse etc. wether or not she condones it and whatnot. ofc not if its a relationship thats poly-partner-shit-i-cant-remember-the-last-part-of-this-word.
 

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i cant say as i'd be too pleased if my bf went and boinked someone else and if it was a hooker i'd be less upset as the possibility he loved her and thought she was better than me but more upset at the thought of catching some horrible std and having to wake up one morning with mushrooms growing out me clam.

either way he'd have been chucked faster than a baked potatoe at a hot spud chucking contest.

[edit: ooh look i got a new title, where'd that come from? do the boys get to be queens too?]
 

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If you cheat on your wife/gf etc. then you're a twat - simply put.
 

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Bugz said:
If you cheat on your wife/gf etc. then you're a twat - simply put.

Easy to be so noble when your so young, I'd like to see the same standards when your battard and some hot girl is coming on to you really strongly and say you and the women are having problems.

I have never cheated on a GF or never will probably, I've had someone do it to me and it aint nice. But it's not as black and white as you seem to make out.
 

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lol gamah, you never fail to amuse me:p

but!
yes its immoral, so yes you should feel guilty, however this logic would suggest 3-sums are a no-go;)
 

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Does it have to be Amsterdam for you not to feel guilty?

I mean.. If you did it in your hometown you'd ofc feel guilty, but does it make any difference where you are?

As Tears(change your name back ffs! :() said: Bad bad Gamah!
 

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Ezteq said:
if it was a hooker i'd be less upset as the possibility he loved her and thought she was better than me

If anything you should probably be MORE worried that he'll fall in love with her. Hookers represent completely complication free sex, with no responsibility :p Thats a lot of a guys idea of a perfect woman. You only have to glance around and theres hundreds of books/movies/songs/true accounts about guys falling in love with hookers.
 

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Vladamir said:
Lol :D

I'm blatantly the king of OT, can i have a custom title without paying please mods?

You can all fight about being king ;)
I think it's pretty obvious that i am the most ninja-esque of the OT ninja :p
I have no interest in being the king, i live in the shadows, behind the scene. And only come out to do a super assassination post :p
 

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Blackjack said:
You can all fight about being king ;)
I think it's pretty obvious that i am the most ninja-esque of the OT ninja :p
I have no interest in being the king, i live in the shadows, behind the scene. And only come out to do a super assassination post :p

Hmh. Well.

I, with my past, will not even comment on this discussion.

When we moved from barrysworld, my "Odd" title was taken, and not given back, and i still hold a lot of gringe against that :(

But Eq comes back from gods know where and in two weeks gets this title? Humbug!
 

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old.Tohtori said:
But Eq comes back from gods know where and in two weeks gets this title? Humbug!

Special treatment for being a woman. (And no Mary, being a very very gay homosexual isn't enough to make you truly count as female ;))

I think her dancing video might have scored her many a point towards a custom title aswell ;)
 

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NikonL said:
If anything you should probably be MORE worried that he'll fall in love with her. Hookers represent completely complication free sex, with no responsibility :p Thats a lot of a guys idea of a perfect woman. You only have to glance around and theres hundreds of books/movies/songs/true accounts about guys falling in love with hookers.

hay the only complication about having sex with me is that you have to figure out how to slide yur brains back in through your ears after (omg.... ive turned in to blackjack .. ill be running about naked soon :( )

well that and you have to be able to get out of bed without waking me up afterwards.

now what the hell was this thread about anyway is this the free running one or the one about whats in your fridge?
 

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