Oh I really need some help :((

[Little Boy]

I really need some help guys
I don't know what to do
Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a month now Oh yay all well and good... but shes said just now that she's not too sure because we act more like friends than bf and gf. I've told her I really like but shes saying that shes not sure if the relationship can work if we act more like friends than BF and GF.
I really do not want to break up and i really do not know what to do, i really need some help guys Please
Thanx
Jim

 

[Lamp]

Let her go
Unrequited love is not a relationship
No matter how much you want her, or what you tell her, sounds like she's made her mind up already
Best best would be for you to move on. Its hard, but you'll find someone else.
If you keep pining for her, it'll only screw you up. She sounds like she's moved on, so should you.

Keep your chin up.

You're young. You'll find someone else.

 

[Eeben]

well if she thinks you are acting like just friends you need to take it to the next level!

 

[old.Tohtori]

*takes out Big Book of Hits and Misses - By (enter witty name of self)*

This means that she's either A: Contemplating on breaking up and this is a prelude; the female kind think this kind of thing makes it "easier for the man to accept" then outright saying so. B: Thinks your a pansy and don't want to hump-a-rump enough. C: Thinks you JUST want to hump-a-rump.

Fixes?

If option A: Try to get as much of hump-a-rump out of it. It's going to happen no matter.
If option B: Want more hump-a-rump and stop being so damn nice!
If option C: Try to cut down the hump-a-rump need, this also leads to more hump-a-rump.

Things not to do?

Tell "Take your time, i'll wait."
Tell "I understand."
Tell "I know i've felt it too."

Things to say?

"Well if you think so, then you do, but i know i don't want you just as a friend.(add loveydovey crap as see fit)"
"Aren't all good relationships based on a strong friendship?"
"If i wanted a friend, i'd get a dog, but i want you."

*closes book*

 

[aika]

go postal on her.

 

[Eeben]

*
"If i wanted a friend, i'd get a dog, but i want you."

thats a good one! im so gonna use it next time!

 

[Vladamir]

Put your hand up her skirt.

No longer friends

 

[Solo]

Enrol in Bugz's lecture: 'how to make sweet sweet sexor down by the fire'

 

[Wonk]

my advice would be to cut the connection to her completly. I know it's hard, but it's even harder to be "friends" with someone you've got such feelings for (personal experience - can't say what works best for you really )

 

[Eeben]

my advice would be to cut the connection to her completly. I know it's hard, but it's even harder to be "friends" with someone you've got such feelings for (personal experience - can't say what works best for you really )

why not try an get laid first an if he she still wanna be friends , cut the connection. Thats what we call a win win situation!

 

[Wonk]

why not try an get laid first an if he she still wanna be friends , cut the connection. Thats what we call a win win situation!

you can't just go "omigod sexxor plz" if it's her who wants to break up do her mom or something instead then.

 

[Eeben]

you can't just go "omigod sexxor plz" if it's her who wants to break up do her mom or something instead then.

you can atleast try, worst thing is she says no an breaks up.

You never know, maybe he fucks her so good she dont wanna break up anymore !

or fuck her mother !

YouTube - Im Gonna Fuck Your Mom

 

[Raven]

You're what? 12? Put a frog down her back

Jesus

 

[Amildin]

You're what? 12? Put a frog down her back

Jesus

oi, i still pull that move in clubs...

 

[Lamp]

You're what? 12? Put a frog down her back

ROFL !!!

Why should that be the province of 12 year olds ? I'm 35, and I'm gonna get me a box of frogz. Absolutely ace idea !

 

[tris-]

I really need some help guys
I don't know what to do
Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a month now Oh yay all well and good... but shes said just now that she's not too sure because we act more like friends than bf and gf. I've told her I really like but shes saying that shes not sure if the relationship can work if we act more like friends than BF and GF.
I really do not want to break up and i really do not know what to do, i really need some help guys Please
Thanx
Jim

what actually makes you "BF and GF" then? have you got to the holding hands bit yet?

the truth is no one can give you proper advice. the only thing that works is what you think is best and thats all there is to it. you have told us nothing at all about this "relationship", only you and her know whats what.

 

[Little Boy]

what actually makes you "BF and GF" then? have you got to the holding hands bit yet?

the truth is no one can give you proper advice. the only thing that works is what you think is best and thats all there is to it. you have told us nothing at all about this "relationship", only you and her know whats what.

Yeh we've dun fings lik tht lol ovii
And lik dun a few other things *hint**hint* but she sez it feels awkward coz we woz such gd friends... oh well... thanx for gr8 replies guys

 

[Tilda]

I dont know how old you guys are, but if you were friends before or are friends now, thats one of the best things in a relationship. Tell her its a good thing, and that you just want to take it slowly with other things.
If she likes you, she might just be aborting early because being "friends" and liking someone is weird for her.

 

[old.Tohtori]

Yeh we've dun fings lik tht lol ovii
And lik dun a few other things *hint**hint* but she sez it feels awkward coz we woz such gd friends... oh well... thanx for gr8 replies guys

Hmm.

Relationship problem.
Noticable alcohol level in writing.

*checks crystal balls*

Oh yes, this is going to be sweet when he sobers up.

Drunk calls anyone? *grin*

 

[Himse]

Yeh we've dun fings lik tht lol ovii
And lik dun a few other things *hint**hint* but she sez it feels awkward coz we woz such gd friends... oh well... thanx for gr8 replies guys

lol, can i ask how old you are btw?

 

[tris-]

Yeh we've dun fings lik tht lol ovii
And lik dun a few other things *hint**hint* but she sez it feels awkward coz we woz such gd friends... oh well... thanx for gr8 replies guys

what the fuck does this mean? whats a *hint**hint* exactly?
sounds to me like it wont go anywhere. if you both meet each other with the initial intention to be friends, the woman will always just think of you as a friend.

unless your extremely lucky.

shes saying it feels awkward, what does that tell you?

 

[Huntingtons]

Hmm.

Relationship problem.
Noticable alcohol level in writing.

*checks crystal balls*

Oh yes, this is going to be sweet when he sobers up.

Drunk calls anyone? *grin*

you do know this kid is 14 max right?

 

[old.Tohtori]

you do know this kid is 14 max right?

No. I don't. You?

Was just comparing the writing of the original and last post, which indicates some intoxication.

Anyhoo, kids get drunk too, and 14 is way due these days. Hell, was any days.

 

[Huntingtons]

agreed, but drunk posting is for more experienced people. although i assume the time of post fits quite nicely with the age and bedtime for drunks that age. but if you consider that drunken posting im dreading our future - every person younger than 15 writes like that, our society is turning into one big drunk!

 

[preacherboy]

I really need some help guys
I don't know what to do
Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a month now Oh yay all well and good... but shes said just now that she's not too sure because we act more like friends than bf and gf. I've told her I really like but shes saying that shes not sure if the relationship can work if we act more like friends than BF and GF.
I really do not want to break up and i really do not know what to do, i really need some help guys Please
Thanx
Jim

You too young to think about girls, Go watch... Shrek 3rd

 

[Lethul]

dump her first, ignore her. then she will be coming back for you

 

[Sparx]

I had the exact same situation this week with my gf. As soon as she said the friends stuff i knew thats it.

Best thing to do mate is to end it now, cause thats probably what she is hinting at, steer clear of her for a couple of weeks then move on to the next yat

EDIT: oh and when i say steer clear thats not ignore her, thats just keep your distance a bit till the feeling calm down a little

 

[echome]

You are indeed brave for asking such questions on this forums. Many, me amoung them, have been flamed for it.

But to try and give you my point of view:

Decide if you really wanna give this "relationship" a chance, if you do so you got nothing to worry about ;-). Because then you just have to rip your heart out and do anything and everything possible to win her love. You can't stop for a second to think, do whatever feels right and what is in your power to achive her love. When this is done, you can't do anymore and therefor you will see if it is meant to be.

If not, then it is gonna hurt - if so, then it is gonna hurt. But without taking a chance and making sacrifices in life you will never experience true love. And when it is right, it is the best thing in the world.

Best of luck Little Boy

 

[crispy]

Bla bla bla, 'just friends', best way to counter it is with the ol' 'if you feel were just friends right now, and we still have sex, can we then just shag for the fun of it if we break up?'.

If she says no then shes not a real friend! Real friends help each other xD

If she says yes you won at relationship and gain +1 to sexytime

 

[Amanita]

Just how do you act "more like friends" anyway? In just my view my BF should be like my best friend with the added bonus of cuddling ^^

And yeah, I love my platonic friends too.

Maybe you should ask her exactly what she means when she says you're "acting more like friends" because that sounds like she's wanting something specific.