Met another gal over the internet, advice needed.

[Vasconcelos]

You get a lot more quality tail by dropping it at the sign of-, and by not going with the -"oooh giggle chase me!" routine.

Timesaver if there ver was one, but sadly men seem to be so goal oriented that they want THAT booty and all the while ignore the 100 or so better booties while going for it.

It's like chasing after a marvelous candy;

"Best candy ever invented! You guys should see the wrapping on that candy! Oh f*ck off with your candy, it's not THIS candy! Oooh chase candy candy candy! *gest to candy* Ooh yei! Candy! Candy! ...what the...a regular mentos? Bah."

Ofc. Sadly we all work that way: you dessire much more what you cant have. Period.

 

[Lamp]

lol cornflaps

 

[Sparx]

Have you thought about the other side of the coin?

She meets you

1. Its all an act on her part, she's sex mad, and just wants to shag you senseless....the drawback being she's a nutter...one of those girls who is deeply intensely jealous and follows you around everywhere, phones you up demanding why you're not thinking of her, etc, basically the only way of getting rid of her is changing all your phone numbers, moving apartments, or shooting her

2. she takes one look at you in the flesh and says sorry this isn't going to work out

3. brings along a fat friend and less than subtly tries to get you 2 romantically entangled

4 she's a He

HAHA oh ive had 3 happen to me before quite embarassing

 

[Sparx]

And i dunno im with a smoking hot girl right now, and its fantastic as we are friends first and foremost. But we also really care about each other too, its great

 

[Mey]

Fag ^

 

[Sparx]

I sure am, she has a massive cock

EDIT: I just re-read what i typed, what a gay, i may aswell just hurry up and start ovulating

 

[Jiggs]

Why are you such a pussy though?

Show HER a good time, Tease HER, wind HER up.

Don't get played, play the game you nutter!

 

[Thorwyn]

Why are you such a pussy though?

Show HER a good time, Tease HER, wind HER up.

Don't get played, play the game you nutter!

What he said!

Plus remember: don´t overdo the tongue!

 

[old.Tohtori]

Ofc. Sadly we all work that way: you dessire much more what you cant have. Period.

Not really all, once you realise it, it's easy to switch off.

Especially since you CAN have it, just not with that particular girls name on it.

Anyone thinkign "this girl is one of a kind" with a world of 6bil, is valenwashed

 

[Vasconcelos]

What he said!

Plus remember: don´t overdo the tongue!

LOL

Best pic evah! Repped if I could give you some again :lol:

 

[fettoken]

I don't like playing games. (except for DaoC, well i dont like it that much either)


I like keeeepin it reeeeel... *stands up with arms in the air waiting for a flamestorm to engulf my body*

 

[old.Tohtori]

I don't like playing games. (except for DaoC, well i dont like it that much either)


I like keeeepin it reeeeel... *stands up with arms in the air waiting for a flamestorm to engulf my body*

then your option should be clear;

"I like you, i want more then friends, your call."

Press send.

Most likely lose all and any contact to the girl if she's really only looking for a friend, but if she's playing...meh.

 

[Cerb]

I dont know mate everyone says that, but once you get the girl, you begin to realise how much fun the chase and the game was!

 

[old.Tohtori]

I dont know mate everyone says that, but once you get the girl, you begin to realise how much fun the chase and the game was!

I usually stand up enough to get the impression that i'm chasing, let the girl giggle and run away and sit abck down to my drink

It's like that game with a dog "Let's go out!", dog runs to the door, then waggles her tail as she comes back with a look of "Well?" on her face.

 

[Cerb]

haha well yeah but you are palying a game there, youve changed the game so its your rules, but its a game all the same!

 

[fettoken]

then your option should be clear;

"I like you, i want more then friends, your call."

Press send.

I tried being direct to her before, it doesnt work with her. Well at least i know my options now. Only option is to play my cards right. Wish me luck, because she plays her cards damn well i'd say.

 

[old.Tohtori]

haha well yeah but you are palying a game there, youve changed the game so its your rules, but its a game all the same!

It's conditioning to stop playing the game

If they want something, they ask, or there's nothing going on.

Though i guess i'm playing sort of a game for my own amusement, which is just sadistic, not the regular gaming

Fettoken, if that's the advice you took from this thread, you're beyond help

My crystall ball;

Not gonna happen, wasted hours/days/weeks by fettoken, one sad fettoken result.

If you've made it clear and sh'es made it clear, it's not happening.

 

[Sparx]

Dont be direct you'll scare her off

Unfortunately its all about the game, even if you say you dont play it, everyone does to an extent

If you know there is a small light there then being upfront and direct will make you look like a crazy clingy stalker. The old tricks of talking to her mates before her, having all her mates love you etc do work a treat. Say hi to her then move on to her chat her mates

 

[old.Tohtori]

Nwo that's the kind of bullcrap that makes these clingy stalker types try and try and fail

He's said he's interested.
She's said she's not.

It's not like it's rocket science

 

[fettoken]

Tohtori, if you think i am taking a direct advice from someone here you are mistaken. Just wanted to hear what people thought. But if its something i have learnt in life, its that nothing is impossible. Well, maybe Finland is an exception.. just look at you Toth, wreck of a man!

I think we should meet, go to some bar and approach a woman each then laugh at the one who fails.

 

[Sparx]

Nwo that's the kind of bullcrap that makes these clingy stalker types try and try and fail

He's said he's interested.
She's said she's not.

It's not like it's rocket science

Please. Just because she says she isnt doesnt mean she definately isnt.

No-one is honest in the courting game. Not one person. And the ones who are, well they could count in one hand the amount of people they've slept with (talking about single people here not the married heads)

 

[Thorwyn]

I think we all have different experiences about how to handle a situation like this. Want to hear a secret?

There is no rule of thumb to play by. It completely depends on your personality and the other personality. Some women want you to be direct, some enjoy the game, some dudes are direct, some dudes are more reserved. It´s all situational and all fluid. How boring would life be if there was a correct pattern to follow all the time?

The fact that she already told you that there´s no more than friendship indicates that she´s the direct type, although it could also be some sort of test or challenge. But don´t worry, you´ll find out.

 

[Sparx]

True Thor. Im lucky i have to confidence to back up my actions i suppose. My little brother is shy so wouldnt work so well with him

The way i read it is why is she meeting up for drinks if she only wants friends with a stranger?

 

[old.Tohtori]

Tohtori, if you think i am taking a direct advice from someone here you are mistaken. Just wanted to hear what people thought. But if its something i have learnt in life, its that nothing is impossible. Well, maybe Finland is an exception.. just look at you Toth, wreck of a man!

I think we should meet, go to some bar and approach a woman each then laugh at the one who fails.

Wreck? Sure. Have fun on your stalking.

Please. Just because she says she isnt doesnt mean she definately isnt.

No-one is honest in the courting game. Not one person. And the ones who are, well they could count in one hand the amount of people they've slept with (talking about single people here not the married heads)

Well, wrong wrong and wrong. 100% honesty here and no problems.

Fett made it pretty clear she said not interested and that's that. If you take someone saying "not interested" as "So you're saying there's a chance", you're the one with a problem.

 

[Sparx]

Wreck? Sure. Have fun on your stalking.



Well, wrong wrong and wrong. 100% honesty here and no problems.

Fett made it pretty clear she said not interested and that's that. If you take someone saying "not interested" as "So you're saying there's a chance", you're the one with a problem.

I'd be willing to put money on it that 4 out of 5 times you walk up to a girl in a bar and go " i think your are really pretty i want us to go out on a date, fall in love, get married and have 10 kids" she will freak and walk away*

*my have overexaggerated


I have consistantly punched above my weight belt with girls most of my life, cause i knew how to read them. Its an easy game to win if done right

EDIT: perhaps finnish girls are different to UK girls and there lies the problem

 

[fettoken]

Wreck? Sure. Have fun on your stalking.



Well, wrong wrong and wrong. 100% honesty here and no problems.

Come on, dont be moody.

I am meeting her with an open mind, whatever happens happens and i will accept that.

 

[Thorwyn]

I have consistantly punched above my weight belt with girls most of my life, cause i knew how to read them.

So you´re kinda like the Daniel Negreanu of the flirting game?

 

[old.Tohtori]

Who says i walk up to them at all? I've never in my life done that.

Honesty doesn't mean "explain the future plans" and if YOU have those plans in your head at that point, again, your problem

 

[CorNokZ]

Bring money. Girls like men with money. Bring lots of money. When she sees the money she will give in. Her panties will be damp. Bring a suitcase of money. Girls like that. Suitcases and money. Her pants will drop. Bring a sportsbag filled with money. She will love you. Money and money.

 

[Sparx]

Come on, dont be moody.

I am meeting her with an open mind, whatever happens happens and i will accept that.

They way i personally would play it is go meet here be cool tell her your cool with friends to help her relax. Enjoy plenty of free flowing booze to stop her thinking too much on the situation and enjoy the night. It may or may not end with something that night, but done successfully you have planted a seed that your a great guy.

If you really want her be prepared to play the 5 year game, may sound alot but ive being doing it all my life and have enough 5 years lined up, its like investments. They come to fruition when you need them

That may sound utter shit to people but its worked very well for me all my life, patience is the key to getting what you want