Met another gal over the internet, advice needed.

[fettoken]

So i met another gal over the internet (yeah i have to stop meeting them like this) and we decided to meet in about a month. But she said that i shouldnt have any hopes of being more than her friend because she did not have any of those feelings. But i think you can't develop such things by just chatting with someone. But... i just got to have her. She is the hottest chick i have ever seen, but a right out temptress and bitch. How should i approach?

 

[Cerb]

Hmmmm. Well I've heard that once a girl decideds she doesnt like you in that way that's it. I've also expierienced this aswell, pining after a girl for years and getting nowhere. So I would say bail out before you get attached. If you cant leave it at this then make it very clear you want to be more than friends before you meet up and see how receptive she is?

 

[old.Tohtori]

Yeah, if they say "No dice" straight out, it's no dice.

Only way to turn someones head after you've SO clerly entered the friend zone, is to be their friend for a good 5-10 years and happen to be there at the exact right time with the exact right thing to say.

Not worth it unles you're going for a friend and that's it, otherwise you've got trouble and only to you, with no bonus in sight.

 

[fettoken]

Yeah, if they say "No dice" straight out, it's no dice.

Only way to turn someones head after you've SO clerly entered the friend zone, is to be their friend for a good 5-10 years and happen to be there at the exact right time with the exact right thing to say.

Not worth it unles you're going for a friend and that's it, otherwise you've got trouble and only to you, with no bonus in sight.

Well i value our friendship. But i do not really want to think ahead 5 - 10 years.
Just this once, i would give everything for just a night with her, it would be so worth it. Even if i were to go to hell for it xD (no im not talking rape here)

Take advice from me. Don't start talking casually with someone over internet through lets say MSN or w/e, it's a good way to become permanently friends.

Hmmmm. Well I've heard that once a girl decideds she doesnt like you in that way that's it. I've also expierienced this aswell, pining after a girl for years and getting nowhere. So I would say bail out before you get attached. If you cant leave it at this then make it very clear you want to be more than friends before you meet up and see how receptive she is?

Been wanting to bail out, but she is sucking me in every time by all the talk talk talk. I even said we shouldn't stay friends since i didnt think we get along well, but she starts to blame me and blablabla so i weaken, and she still wants to meet, to torture me more. But i intend to try everything even if it means she sees me as a man-pig who is only looking for a piece of ass.

 

[Lamp]

To be honest if you just want to pork her, and she just wants to be friends, its never going to work out. Its a hell of a lot easier to be friends with someone you don't want to stick your todger into everytime you think of her

 

[adoNix]

By the looks of it, this is your only chance! ;\ sorry pal.

 

[fettoken]

By the looks of it, this is your only chance! ;\ sorry pal.

*laugh*.. Rep *sad face*

 

[Lamp]

Have you thought about the other side of the coin?

She meets you

1. Its all an act on her part, she's sex mad, and just wants to shag you senseless....the drawback being she's a nutter...one of those girls who is deeply intensely jealous and follows you around everywhere, phones you up demanding why you're not thinking of her, etc, basically the only way of getting rid of her is changing all your phone numbers, moving apartments, or shooting her

2. she takes one look at you in the flesh and says sorry this isn't going to work out

3. brings along a fat friend and less than subtly tries to get you 2 romantically entangled

4 she's a He

 

[Moriath]

Just stalk her pick her up have your wicked way and then you can kill her ... isnt that what all interweb stalkers do these days

 

[old.Tohtori]

Well i value our friendship. But i do not really want to think ahead 5 - 10 years.
Just this once, i would give everything for just a night with her, it would be so worth it. Even if i were to go to hell for it xD (no im not talking rape here)

Well i'll be a blunt as i can;

You can't have her, you have a friend. Take friendship or leave.

Those are the only options if she's decided.

 

[old.user4556]

Well i'll be a blunt as i can;

You can't have her, you have a friend. Take friendship or leave.

Those are the only options if she's decided.

Toht speaketh the truth, but to be even blunter, what part of "no more than a friend" isn't catching on with you?

 

[fettoken]

No, Lamp. I didn't think of the other side of the coin.

 

[mooSe_]

That's an odd shaped coin

 

[Tallen]

Beauty is only skin deep.

If she is a bitch as you say, and it's pretty obvious she is playing games with you, the words "cock tease" spring to mind, steer WELL clear.

 

[Calaen]

To be fair she probably has a handful of folks online ready to spout of how hot she is and how horny they are. IT's the internet, don't think for one second that you are the only one, because there is a very high chance you'll be left with egg on your face!

 

[fettoken]

To be fair she probably has a handful of folks online ready to spout of how hot she is and how horny they are. IT's the internet, don't think for one second that you are the only one, because there is a very high chance you'll be left with egg on your face!

Of course i have considered that.

edit: Well thanks for the advice FHOT.

 

[megadave]

pics?

 

[Raven]

 

[fettoken]

How about no.

 

[Dudley52]

I managed to acquire a photo of her:

 

[Thorwyn]

I managed to acquire a photo of her:

FFS, bloody biatch!
She told me I`m the only man in her life!

 

[fettoken]

FFS, bloody biatch!
She told me I`m the only man in her life!

Where is Cokenoze and his hangman drawings when you need him.

 

[TdC]

How should i approach?

with your co>< out tbh

 

[Laddey]

If you wanna give her a go then stick with it, work hard with her, flatter her etc...girls like being chased, chase her. You never know it could turn into a hobby.

And end in end, if you're any good you will get your willy wet.

 

[old.Tohtori]

You get a lot more quality tail by dropping it at the sign of-, and by not going with the -"oooh giggle chase me!" routine.

Timesaver if there ver was one, but sadly men seem to be so goal oriented that they want THAT booty and all the while ignore the 100 or so better booties while going for it.

It's like chasing after a marvelous candy;

"Best candy ever invented! You guys should see the wrapping on that candy! Oh f*ck off with your candy, it's not THIS candy! Oooh chase candy candy candy! *gest to candy* Ooh yei! Candy! Candy! ...what the...a regular mentos? Bah."

 

[kiliarien]

You get a lot more quality tail by dropping it at the sign of-, and by not going with the -"oooh giggle chase me!" routine.

Timesaver if there ver was one, but sadly men seem to be so goal oriented that they want THAT booty and all the while ignore the 100 or so better booties while going for it.

It's like chasing after a marvelous candy;

"Best candy ever invented! You guys should see the wrapping on that candy! Oh f*ck off with your candy, it's not THIS candy! Oooh chase candy candy candy! *gest to candy* Ooh yei! Candy! Candy! ...what the...a regular mentos? Bah."

Lol, mentos, truly a disappointment. Must spread more rep blah blah <sigh>

 

[Ingafgrinn Macabre]

<snip> How should i approach?

No.... Just... No.

 

[Saraden]

If you wanna give her a go then stick with it, work hard with her, flatter her etc...girls like being chased, chase her. You never know it could turn into a hobby.

And end in end, if you're any good you will get your willy wet.

And because they love to be chased, they'll keep on running Quite often the opposite approach works better. Especially if the girl in question is used to being chased by all kinds of weirdos all days long.

Anyways, of course it's situational as everything.

 

[Laddey]

And because they love to be chased, they'll keep on running Quite often the opposite approach works better. Especially if the girl in question is used to being chased by all kinds of weirdos all days long.

Anyways, of course it's situational as everything.

Agree'd. You will know if she's game from the first instant!

 

[CorNokZ]

Where is Cokenoze and his hangman drawings when you need him.