old.Tohtori
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Just had to put that topic in one time
What i really wanted to say is this; is the whole "the one", "you'll find someone" etc a load of hypothetical crock?
First of, the one. Sure it's a nice idea that there's this superfitting megaunit for everyone, but it's hardly realistic. This would mean that there's a "one" for the axewielding, kiddiefiddling wow-nerd down the street. Or is this perhaps a situational load of crock, brought forth by the lucky ones who have found the preverbial jackpot? Or jillpot. In essence i've always felt that there's, maybe, someone out there who will eventually fit in my world(not that i'm in a rush to find one), but i'm hardpressed to believe it's some magically created person just for this purpose. Afterall, you have to train the women a bit before they work
Second bit, my love to hate one; "you'll find someone eventually". Now that i know is a load of crock as no one can say that for certainty. It's the same chance, to some degree, to find someone, or die alone with 50 cats. Which is rather insulting to cats mind you. I always feel it's meant as a pat on the back, but it has such a huge false premise that it might actually set up someone with the emotional bomb.
This is kind of a half rant, half question, whatchamacallit to have a discussion on. Interested in the opinions of the folk out and about as there's a motley crew around for sure.
What i really wanted to say is this; is the whole "the one", "you'll find someone" etc a load of hypothetical crock?
First of, the one. Sure it's a nice idea that there's this superfitting megaunit for everyone, but it's hardly realistic. This would mean that there's a "one" for the axewielding, kiddiefiddling wow-nerd down the street. Or is this perhaps a situational load of crock, brought forth by the lucky ones who have found the preverbial jackpot? Or jillpot. In essence i've always felt that there's, maybe, someone out there who will eventually fit in my world(not that i'm in a rush to find one), but i'm hardpressed to believe it's some magically created person just for this purpose. Afterall, you have to train the women a bit before they work
Second bit, my love to hate one; "you'll find someone eventually". Now that i know is a load of crock as no one can say that for certainty. It's the same chance, to some degree, to find someone, or die alone with 50 cats. Which is rather insulting to cats mind you. I always feel it's meant as a pat on the back, but it has such a huge false premise that it might actually set up someone with the emotional bomb.
This is kind of a half rant, half question, whatchamacallit to have a discussion on. Interested in the opinions of the folk out and about as there's a motley crew around for sure.