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Archeon
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Yay! one more totally meaningless post count.
anyway with that out of the way let me get to the point, it seems that there are a lot of people at the moment that are flaming each other over these forums.
i mean come on people, we're all mates here right? we're all fighting the menace of the albion herds, and the hibby flocks.
we don't really need people trying to make people they had a dissagrement with look bad to everyone else, remember just because you have a problem with sombody doesn't mean that everyone else does. all your doing by talking all this nasty stuff about them is making trouble.
i'm trying hard not to be all preachy about this, hell i have people i don't really get on with too much. especially when they start flaming me for making mistakes i make, but its not that difficult to turn the other cheak if you try. i've found that if they try to publicly flame you to just roll with it,
for example - i'm in the lair, and i have the bad habbit of mezzing the mob closest too me. not being pac specced i have to rely on my single target due to the utter crapness of my AE (32sec's
) and i occasionally make a big screw-up of this and don't mez a single one. i then get people swearing at me and all that, especially if my cock-up caused the group to wipe out but hell it happens, and more to the point it has happened so there isn't really a whole lot of point in rising too it is there?
if you keep a level head and just go with it without responding to harsh words then you'l find you can actually sort out you differences. people are fairly forgiving when you can admit your in the wrong and appologize for it.
this is i've got to admit mainly aimed at tanks when they act all self-rightous and think they could do it better.
the same can be said for flaming your ex-guild. not for any special reason but the recent anti-CE stuff isn't exactly the most interesting of topics to talk about, so they arn't exactly perfect big whop who umong us is arrogent enough to belive they have never made mistakes? never acting like a nice guy 100% of the time? never lost their cool? anyone that says they never has in my opinion is full of shit. its human emotion to feel anger to deny this is to deny your humanity.
well basically what i'm trying to say is that we're one realm, all trying to help each other to get along. if you meet sombody you don't get along with (and it's almost impossible to not) then there is no need to go trying to point them out on the forums. their your disputs not the communitys.
...urmm, anyway thats enough of my anti-flaming flame post. so add constructive replys, 'yes i agree' posts or simply call me an idiot for thinking like this, hell everyones different if we wern't then life would be prity boring
anyway with that out of the way let me get to the point, it seems that there are a lot of people at the moment that are flaming each other over these forums.
i mean come on people, we're all mates here right? we're all fighting the menace of the albion herds, and the hibby flocks.
we don't really need people trying to make people they had a dissagrement with look bad to everyone else, remember just because you have a problem with sombody doesn't mean that everyone else does. all your doing by talking all this nasty stuff about them is making trouble.
i'm trying hard not to be all preachy about this, hell i have people i don't really get on with too much. especially when they start flaming me for making mistakes i make, but its not that difficult to turn the other cheak if you try. i've found that if they try to publicly flame you to just roll with it,
for example - i'm in the lair, and i have the bad habbit of mezzing the mob closest too me. not being pac specced i have to rely on my single target due to the utter crapness of my AE (32sec's
) and i occasionally make a big screw-up of this and don't mez a single one. i then get people swearing at me and all that, especially if my cock-up caused the group to wipe out but hell it happens, and more to the point it has happened so there isn't really a whole lot of point in rising too it is there?if you keep a level head and just go with it without responding to harsh words then you'l find you can actually sort out you differences. people are fairly forgiving when you can admit your in the wrong and appologize for it.
this is i've got to admit mainly aimed at tanks when they act all self-rightous and think they could do it better.
the same can be said for flaming your ex-guild. not for any special reason but the recent anti-CE stuff isn't exactly the most interesting of topics to talk about, so they arn't exactly perfect big whop who umong us is arrogent enough to belive they have never made mistakes? never acting like a nice guy 100% of the time? never lost their cool? anyone that says they never has in my opinion is full of shit. its human emotion to feel anger to deny this is to deny your humanity.
well basically what i'm trying to say is that we're one realm, all trying to help each other to get along. if you meet sombody you don't get along with (and it's almost impossible to not) then there is no need to go trying to point them out on the forums. their your disputs not the communitys.
...urmm, anyway thats enough of my anti-flaming flame post. so add constructive replys, 'yes i agree' posts or simply call me an idiot for thinking like this, hell everyones different if we wern't then life would be prity boring