Help hhmmm my head messed up :(

[Amphrax]

Ok I wont goto to much detail...

I found this girl I like alot that I've known for some time and I finally got her to go out with me coz I knew she liked me alot. Going out with her for a week we done some stuff in my car <drools> and then 2 days later I found out she was still with her boyfriend (which I didn't know).

She basically called it off between us and just wants to be m8s. But in future she says she might come back to me for a relationship.

Now I kinda feel like I been lead on but I know deep down she does actually like me.

We talk alot and the amount of stuff we got in common is oh my god.

After a few days she got rid of her boyfriend because she wants to be single and have fun (who doesn't) she has lots of boys after her and her head is sooo messed up and she dont know what to do.

She keeps telling me that I may have a chance with her.

I really dont know what to do... do I just be her m8 and hope something will happen in the future... let her go (which im finding really really really hard and thats not something I really wanna do coz we get on so well).

But I dont wanna waste my time on something that might not happen - arrrrrrrggggggggghhhhhhh I'm so confused...

Shes really messing my head up

 

[fettoken]

Sounds like she doesnt mind messing with your head. You should treat her accordingly.

 

[Lamp]

Stopped reading after " I found this girl"

/yawn

Good luck whatever its about and whatever you decide to do

 

[Edmond]

She keeps telling you that you may have a chance with her???

Who does she think she is, she is taking the piss. What is she waiting for, better options to come along?

Seriously, dont get involved, walk away from her now, or it will give you a total head fuck everytime you see her with someone else

 

[TdC]

hmm imo she's just leading you through the motions. so now you either have to drop your feelings of moreness and resign to being mates, -or- keep going with all you got.

what I would do is ignore her for a while, but that's because I am a bitter and harsh old cvnt (really because I dislike people not giving me the full story very much; in fact, if she had done that to me I would be hella pissed off)

 

[Edmond]

(really because I dislike people not giving me the full story very much; in fact, if she had done that to me I would be hella pissed off)

qft

 

[Bahumat]

She cheated on her partner (i dont care how rocky a relationship is, you dont do that). Who's to say she wont cheat on you.

She just wants to be mates, but she says you may have a chance. Fuck that, it's cruel for you to wait on a knife edge to see what she decides. You cant exactly *demand* an answer off her, but I would not hang around 'hoping' she see's sense lol.

She may decide that she misses things from being in a relationship so she uses you for that. You 'kind of' date for a bit, then it ends and you're left hurt.

This is what I would do. Tell her how much you like her (she may think with all the messing around you've gone off her). Then say that you're gonna spend some time apart as (i can only assume here) she needs some time on her own to think about whatevers troubling her.
If she wants to start a relationship with you then by all means contact you and meet up to see if the sparks still there. But say you dont wanna be 'just' her friend and you dont want to go through all the "ooh what did she mean when she said that" nonesense. Hanging on waiting for an answer is never the way to go if you can help it.

 

[pikeh]

she might come back to you later for a relationship?

You might have a chance with her?

sounds like a grade-a leading-on slag tbh.

And, what bahu said.

Shes cheated on her boyfriend with you, theres shit loads of guys after her, she will do the same.

Theres no excuse for cheating.

 

[Amphrax]

She cheated on her partner (i dont care how rocky a relationship is, you dont do that). Who's to say she wont cheat on you.

She just wants to be mates, but she says you may have a chance. Fuck that, it's cruel for you to wait on a knife edge to see what she decides. You cant exactly *demand* an answer off her, but I would not hang around 'hoping' she see's sense lol.

She may decide that she misses things from being in a relationship so she uses you for that. You 'kind of' date for a bit, then it ends and you're left hurt.

This is what I would do. Tell her how much you like her (she may think with all the messing around you've gone off her). Then say that you're gonna spend some time apart as (i can only assume here) she needs some time on her own to think about whatevers troubling her.
If she wants to start a relationship with you then by all means contact you and meet up to see if the sparks still there. But say you dont wanna be 'just' her friend and you dont want to go through all the "ooh what did she mean when she said that" nonesense. Hanging on waiting for an answer is never the way to go if you can help it.

Thanks that made alot of sense, appreciated

 

[Dark Orb Choir]

fuck her up the arse and take pictures whilst ur doing it, then post them online.

tell her you have aids and you have to be together as she now has aids too, then live happily ever after, well untill the aids kills you both


job done

 

[pez]

tbh

 

[Sparx]

have sex with her mum and best friend, preferably at the same time. That'll teach her

 

[TdC]

have sex with her mum and best friend, preferably at the same time. That'll teach her

I think this is the best advice yet.

Only conceivable better result would be to film the deed, put it on the internet, then have her -after having seen the vid- tell you she's sorry she messed you up and her deepest wish was now to make it a foursome next time.

 

[tris-]

Finger her.

 

[Sparx]

Do what all decent guys do, spike her drink, do her up the bum in an alley steal her shoes and ditch her

 

[tris-]

So thats what I have been missing out. I usually go straight for the shoes.

 

[Sparx]

all depends on the shoes

 

[Legaen]

Wouldn't go near her tbh from what i've read.

 

[Zede]

less seriousness plze

buy her some flowers, take her out for a drink & shag her sensless.

at least get a shag out of it, you can be all metrosexual & ponder the rights 'n wrongs, you know spending days mulling over what you should or should not do...


Be a man & get her bedded.

 

[Amphrax]

I been talking to her alot tonight and I said some things that were wrong which made her have a go at me.

i went away for 5 mins coz i pretty much know what shes like when she gets angry...when i spoke to her again after she cooled down, she actually told me everything I wanted to know...

She said that she never stopped liking me and that she was scared and i said what I dont understand... she said she was scared coz she was fallin for me and that she didn't want to... she didn't tell me this coz she was trying to hide it but then gave in...

So now we gonna give it another go and see what happens

So I guess i'll be posting on here again in a weeks time lol

 

[Aoami]

mate, i fingered a girl outside a pub tonight who then told me she had a bf so you can stfu

 

[tris-]

I fingered five birds all at once while a granny noshed me off.

 

[Sparx]

i fingered my bumhole while masturbating last night

 

[TdC]

I fingered my espresso machine and burnt my fucking finger :/

 

[Bahumat]

I fingered my espresso machine and burnt my fucking finger :/

ooh that fucking finger sure know's his way around the beans

 

[Bahumat]

She said that she never stopped liking me and that she was scared and i said what I dont understand... she said she was scared coz she was fallin for me and that she didn't want to... she didn't tell me this coz she was trying to hide it but then gave in...

Do you know why she didn't wanna fall for you? Does she just want some time (single) to figure out all her problems etc?

I'd be patient as she'd probably not appreciate you trying to get her naked just yet!