NikonL
Fledgling Freddie
- Joined
- Nov 28, 2006
- Messages
- 648
Thats right. I always got a good laugh out of people here whining about their girl troubles and asking for advice on a forum filled with some of the least-qualified-to-answer people on the net ^^ But i understand the theory, listening to idiots can be beneficial if only because it underlines exactly what not to do 
So i figured i could at least return the favour and give you all a laugh, as ive been mulling this problem over in my head for a while and not come up with a solution.
It starts of fairly typically, i like a girl and she likes me blah blah, we've only met a couple of times so we're not officially together yet, but as far as i know we both want the same thing and i could probably make the move the next time we meet without any fuss. When we're face to face everything is comfortable and relaxed etc.
Now we both have pretty tight college sheduals, and theres a slight distance that means seeing each other during the week, especially as we're still just casual, is pretty impractical. So the weekend is generally the only time we can see each other, this suits me fine, as i dont like seeing too much of a girl in the early stages because it can cause problems.
The only problem is communication BETWEEN the weekends. I know all about the downfalls of text messaging/msn. And beleive me theres nothing id like more than to never talk over either of those but she lives in a signal deadzone, so i cant talk to her on the phone without her going to stand out in a field somewhere which is pretty impractical especially in winter.
When we do talk on msn i get the impression things are strained/tense/forced. Now i agree this could be perfectly normal paranoia, especially as ive gotten this feeling once or twice before with other girls. The only trouble is ive been right every time before as well xD which leads me to trust my instincts a fair bit. So im not sure what to do. I think total Comms blackout during the week would cause more problems than even MSN does, but at this rate conversation on MSN is going to get worse and worse and could potentially self-destruct anwyay. gifv solutions.
So i figured i could at least return the favour and give you all a laugh, as ive been mulling this problem over in my head for a while and not come up with a solution.
It starts of fairly typically, i like a girl and she likes me blah blah, we've only met a couple of times so we're not officially together yet, but as far as i know we both want the same thing and i could probably make the move the next time we meet without any fuss. When we're face to face everything is comfortable and relaxed etc.
Now we both have pretty tight college sheduals, and theres a slight distance that means seeing each other during the week, especially as we're still just casual, is pretty impractical. So the weekend is generally the only time we can see each other, this suits me fine, as i dont like seeing too much of a girl in the early stages because it can cause problems.
The only problem is communication BETWEEN the weekends. I know all about the downfalls of text messaging/msn. And beleive me theres nothing id like more than to never talk over either of those
but she lives in a signal deadzone, so i cant talk to her on the phone without her going to stand out in a field somewhere which is pretty impractical especially in winter.When we do talk on msn i get the impression things are strained/tense/forced. Now i agree this could be perfectly normal paranoia, especially as ive gotten this feeling once or twice before with other girls. The only trouble is ive been right every time before as well xD which leads me to trust my instincts a fair bit. So im not sure what to do. I think total Comms blackout during the week would cause more problems than even MSN does, but at this rate conversation on MSN is going to get worse and worse and could potentially self-destruct anwyay. gifv solutions.
manage that and Sharma will stand forever in your shadow!
