Dumped.

[supersaint]

Females can be cowards too?

Sorry to hear that Tom .

 

[Tom]

Thankfully my house belongs to me, and I have only the one debt (a loan for the car).

My money = my money.

 

[Formash]

Topically :

How do you make a hormone?

Take away her credit cards...

Seriously, dont even begin to understand women. The next one u meet, give her the puppy dog eyes, she'll either hate you or love you forever. Luckily i have the latter....for 13 years, unmarried, so im still walking a fine line, we've even got a joint account.

If things were to go so sour that we splitfor good, her name is on the house mortagage first. Can't see it happening, but you never know

Anyhoo, women are like buses, you will miss one at least for a while, then 2 come along at once.

 

[Will]

And two women at once is great.

 

[Jupitus]

And two women at once is great.

Showoff!

 

[Will]

Showoff!

The wonders of a university education, don'tcha know.

 

[Tom]

So Ronery

 

[SawTooTH]

Its such a long time ago that I can hardly remember but I found not giving a toss seemed to work for me. Girl friend chucks you...who cares. When they find out you havent emotionally invested anything into the relationship it pisses em off no end. Difficult to pull off cleanly though, especially if you are a soft touch like I was. I did eventually succumb but not without having some fun.

 

[tris-]

end of the day, she shits and pisses blood. she gets the stomach cramps. what do you get? anything you want!

women are women, and most women are silly whores. rarelly you get a good egg. just sleep on it, forget about it and let the new days roll!

 

[old.Tohtori]

Ok, this might get some bad replies, but here goes.

Tom, have yu looked into your own behavior and seen something that might have caused this?

Did she give a reason for breaking up?

How did you take the news and did you just succumb to the result?

Or did you fight for her?

How long was the relationship?

And ofcourse, mosmt importantly, what all you forumites want to know..did you get some atleast?


By the way:

heh. could be worse Tom.

She could have been a raving lesbo having wild sex with a gorgeous blonde and you walked in on them.........

How is that EVER worse?

 

[Moving Target]

Jesus, it's nearly 2 months ago, grow some balls

 

[dysfunction]

Jesus, it's nearly 2 months ago, grow some balls

Oh ffs!

I am still in love with a girl who broke up with me about 2 years ago. I think I will still be for a very long time.

I have moved on and realise we will never be together. I have dated and currently dating someone else....

The thing is if you love someone you cant always turn it off...no matter what has happened.

Jesus get with it!

 

[Trem]

I bloody knew you were 2 timing the KEA CSS team Dys

Unexplained disappearances, not putting your name in for one or two games out of a hundred, I suppose we are by the wayside now are we, just like bloody fudgemonkey has dumped us

 

[Milkshake]

Tom, that's sad to hear mate. Losing someone you loved, or have grown close to, is always difficult.

However dude, you gotta start looking at the good things. Healthy, wealthy, happy? So you don't have a girlfriend, sometimes I feel you can have mine.

Best advice I can give you is not to try looking for a girlfriend. Always seems to work....be yourself, have a laugh, but don't 'hunt'.

That way you'll end up with someone that matches you. And if it doesn't work out? Well, best you guys broke up, or you'd be stuck with someone in the end that you can't trust.

Keep the chin up blokeh!

 

[PLightstar]

Relationships are hard when they end, mainly cause its the only time in your life that you let your guard down, then depending on the women, they could respect who u are and u are happy together or they trounce all over u, turning u to dust.

I don't completely hate women any more, im slowly gettin there, started to see someone else now, though she lives like 100 miles away, so I don't know if it will work out.

My friends recently been dumped by his GF it was one of those relationships where u thought nothing could go wrong and they would get married, took us all by surprise even her mother, thought her daughter was stupid in leaving my friend. Goes to show women are strange folk, but we fall for them every time.

 

[dysfunction]

I bloody knew you were 2 timing the KEA CSS team Dys

Unexplained disappearances, not putting your name in for one or two games out of a hundred, I suppose we are by the wayside now are we, just like bloody fudgemonkey has dumped us

No women is worth getting you upset Trem! Or abandoning CSS for!!

 

[Ch3tan]

Oh ffs!

I am still in love with a girl who broke up with me about 2 years ago. I think I will still be for a very long time.

I have moved on and realise we will never be together. I have dated and currently dating someone else....

The thing is if you love someone you cant always turn it off...no matter what has happened.

Jesus get with it!

Look at the reply tris made to understand why some people that post here will never get this. they are obviously emotional voids, or 12 year olds who know no better. Either that or they are wierdos who never go out

 

[Doubledanger]

What'd she write anyway?

 

[Moving Target]

Look at the reply tris made to understand why some people that post here will never get this. they are obviously emotional voids, or 12 year olds who know no better. Either that or they are wierdos who never go out

No, I just realised it was a waste of time moping after a week or two. There's more to life than having a partner. But I spose being independent is bad? There were one or two times where I moped for a few months, but then I realised I'd be much better off when I'd weather the storm, so to speak. It's personal benefit!

 

[throdgrain]

You was a moped??

 

[Moving Target]

Broom broom

 

[Tom]

I'm going speed dating in a few days, a work collegue asked me to go as they're short on men.

Now, either that means that the women are all scary and have frightened off the other men, or there will be about 4 people turning up.

Not my thing tbh, but hey I'll give it a go

 

[Brynn]

Me and my lass broke up two weeks ago.

I am currently enjoying being single.

Speed dating might be a good laugh. Just remember, everyone is going to try and make them laugh. You have to do something unique - that will make them remember you.

 

[Will]

Sinc everyone else is getting in on it, my and my woman split up three months ago...I've had to move house, get a new PC (well, a mac), and general turn up life upside down. But after 5 years of not being single, its a good laugh.

 

[Uncle Sick]

My wife and I just celebrated our 8th anniversary a month ago...


... just to be an arsehole.

 

[Brynn]

Sinc everyone else is getting in on it, my and my woman split up three months ago...I've had to move house, get a new PC (well, a mac), and general turn up life upside down. But after 5 years of not being single, its a good laugh.

I am with you, I was with my lass for 3 years. Not a patch on 5, but its still a bit weird.

Great fun being single though

 

[Brynn]

Hey tom how was speed dating?

 

[Tom]

Not been yet.

 

[Whipped]

You have to do something unique - that will make them remember you.

Just don't read unique as "Drop your trousers and sing the national anthem"

 

[itcheh]

Sorry to hear that Tom - but look on the bright side: at least you didn't mortgage yourself up to the hilt and buy a flat and a car with her, then then have to buy the flat back off her 2 months later when she fucked off with some other bloke?

That was me back in January.

Good things will happen Tom - see the above? Well as of 2 weeks ago I'm now seeing a very attractive (23 year old!!!) girl.

Have fun on the speed dating and go with an open mind.