tough one. it all comes down still to forcing the woman to have an abortion.
Just to keep this flowing what about this situation.
You knock a girl up and are committed to being a farther. You see the mother spend the first two months taking hard drugs drinking and smoking basically doing everything they say will fuck a child up. Do you think there should be a case for abortion there as she is plainly not a fit mother? Other two options force her into rehab till the baby is born or risk a drug addict baby with serious health problems.
Not really, but it does mean that if the man says "no" that it's her choice to go through with it, and her responsibility to care for that baby if she goes through with it, and don't go whining and holding up hands demanding half the shit you own....