Bummer

[cHodAX]

Best man allegedly raped by stripper at bucks' night

 

[Shagrat]

accidental rape? oop's sorry I slipped......

 

[fettoken]

Embarrassing to be him.. i mean what did he expect?

 

[Ch3tan]

Embarrassing to be him.. i mean what did he expect?

To not have a dildo penetrate his anus, that's the whole basis of the story.

 

[cHodAX]

I don't see the problem to be honest, I mean come on, we have all been bummed by a stripper with a dildo at least once. Man-up and get over it.

 

[gohan]

hahahah bummer i get it


cos he got bummed


and its bad times




its like a pun



LOLZ

 

[old.Tohtori]

I'm kinda inclined to ask what lead him to be on all fours, naked butty up in the air with a stripper with a strap-on behind him

 

[Turamber]

He put himself into that situation, naked and ready to accept it ... would be a travesty if the jury found he'd been raped. He is guilty of being grossly stupid.

 

[Sparx]

I'm kinda inclined to ask what lead him to be on all fours, naked butty up in the air with a stripper with a strap-on behind him

Yeah what was he expecting when entering the situation?

 

[tris-]

No one actually read the article then?

"When the man, who was on all fours and naked from the knees up, asked her not to go near his anus, she allegedly said: ‘‘Not a problem. Relax. It’s only fun. I won’t go there.’’"

He asked her not to do anything, it doesnt matter what position he put him self in. If you shared a bed with a naked female and she says "I dont want to have sex", and you shag her, has she put her self in that position?

Or did you rape her since she did not consent to anything.

 

[pez]

So she is behind him with a strap on dildo and lube and he is on all fours with his ass in the air...

hmm...

 

[Garaen]

He put himself into that situation, naked and ready to accept it ... would be a travesty if the jury found he'd been raped. He is guilty of being grossly stupid.

Erm, no.

It wasn't consensual therefore it was sexual abuse/ rape. Lets say it was a female, and the stripper was a guy would that change your opinion?

Regardless of that I think it's still a pretty funny story and he was indeed grossly stupid

 

[pez]

I accidentally put my cock in a girls ass once. Does that make me a rapist?

 

[old.Tohtori]

No matter if he said "no" or not, the position can't be explained in any ANY way.

I'd like anyone to try.

Was she only going to tickle his testies with the dildo?

From behind!?

 

[Garaen]

No matter if he said "no" or not, the position can't be explained in any ANY way.

I'd like anyone to try.

Was she only going to tickle his testies with the dildo?

From behind!?

So you're saying that if when he "asked her not to go near his anus" he really meant please rape me?

 

[old.Tohtori]

So you're saying that if when he "asked her not to go near his anus" he really meant please rape me?

Let's say it like this;

It's easy to say "i said no" after getting a dildo up your hiney and not liking it.

It's even easier to sue a stripper, 'cause we all know they will be in an undermined situation from get go, due to profession.

Have you EVER had anyone wave their NAKED bum infront of you in a clearly sexual situation and go "i don't want anything to happen".

ESPECIALLY when the girl behind you has a strap-on. What do you expect that thing is for? spanking?


Guy was curious, didn't like it, possibly friend found out, sue the prostitute to save face, case closed.

 

[tris-]

Surely the position does not matter. If you ask someone not to do something and they do it, why does that make you in the wrong? I will refer to my example above again. Is the girl in the wrong because you raped her?

Have you EVER had anyone wave their NAKED bum infront of you in a clearly sexual situation and go "i don't want anything to happen".

Plenty of times when Ive had a private lap dance in a club. She can shove her fanny in my face but it doesnt mean its ok for me to touch it.

 

[old.Tohtori]

Plenty of times when Ive had a private lap dance in a club. She can shove her fanny in my face but it doesnt mean its ok for me to touch it.

Did you have your penis out, or a strap-on over your trousers?

 

[tris-]

Did you have your penis out, or a strap-on over your trousers?

Why does that matter. The dancer was clearly in a sexual situatiopn by waving her fanny in my face. Do you think it is ok to touch her in that situation, just because it is sexual?

Do you think its ok to rape a girl who is in bed naked with you, even though she said "i dont want sex", because that is also a sexual situation.

The situation should never matter, if people say no then they say no. Otherwise we can say woman invite rape by dressing in skimpy clothing and grinding on blokes in a nightclub.

 

[Garaen]

So you've changed from the argument that it doesn't matter if he said no, to he's lying and wants to sue a stripper.

I find it hard to believe he would sue a stripper to save face. If he wanted to try it and didn't like it, surely he would just not mention it rather than getting medical tests and going to court.

Anyway, I agree that there's probably more to the story than the paper is printing (isn't there always ) but the fact remains if he said no and she did it - it's still rape.

 

[old.Tohtori]

Why does that matter. The dancer was clearly in a sexual situatiopn by waving her fanny in my face. Do you think it is ok to touch her in that situation, just because it is sexual?

Do you think its ok to rape a girl who is in bed naked with you, even though she said "i dont want sex", because that is also a sexual situation.

You know the situation with a stripper there. You know there's no touching(with poor strippers ), if she whipped her fanny out and teased your naked penis with it, the situation would become very different.

In your normal stripper situations, have you ever even considered benidng over while a stripepr does something with a strap-on?

If you did have a naked girl in your bed, with her ass high in the air and she said "i don't want sex", i think 9 out of 10 would be surprised if she went ballistic if you did insert your member.

Garaen, i think it's a matter of both. If he did say no, see above this line, but most likely he didn't say no before things were happening.

 

[Garaen]

You know the situation with a stripper there. You know there's no touching(with poor strippers ), if she whipped her fanny out and teased your naked penis with it, the situation would become very different.

If you did have a naked girl in your bed, with her ass high in the air and she said "i don't want sex", i think 9 out of 10 would be surprised if she went ballistic if you did insert your member.

No, it would still be classed as rape. Non-consenual sex is rape.

 

[Sparx]

Its easy to say afterwards he didnt want it, but you got to ask yourself would you be in a position being naked with arse in the air and women hovering behind you with a strapon? of course that was going to happen

 

[old.Tohtori]

No, it would still be classed as rape. Non-consenual sex is rape.

If i wanted to be pedantic, i'd say inserting a rubber tube ain't sex

And i'm assuming, assuming, that you'd be surprised too if a girl in your bed would scream rape after waving her ass in the air with you two naked.

Occams razor would say; he tried it, didn't like it.

Or if anyone can provide any option on his positioning to be more logical...

 

[tris-]

If you did have a naked girl in your bed, with her ass high in the air and she said "i don't want sex", i think 9 out of 10 would be surprised if she went ballistic if you did insert your member.

.

Seriously?

Someone has said they dont want sex, and you rape them, but its ok because of her position?

You seem to be missing something fundamental here. If someone says no, then it means no, regardless of what they are doing.

 

[Sparx]

You are under the impression the guy is telling the truth by saying yes i was in a position very difficult to explain but honest guv im telling the truth i didnt want it

 

[tris-]

You are under the impression the guy is telling the truth by saying yes i was in a position very difficult to explain but honest guv im telling the truth i didnt want it

I am under no impression. My point is if someone says no to sometrhing and you do it to them, its not ok just because they were doing one thing or another.

The position is also not difficult to explain either. He was a party, probably drunk, and he decided to play along TO AN EXTENT, to have a laugh.

 

[old.Tohtori]

I am under no impression. My point is if someone says no to sometrhing and you do it to them, its not ok just because they were doing one thing or another.

The position is also not difficult to explain either. He was a party, probably drunk, and he decided to play along TO AN EXTENT, to have a laugh.

I don't know about the parties you've been in but...naaaw.

You keep going to the "no is no" thing and don't take into consideration any of the facts of the situation.

It's not as simple as "no is no".

You're there, on your knees on the bed, dickus ready, the girl is there, on all four, waving her bum at you and says "don't f*ck me", and you don't think there's any indication of f*cking being wanted?

Adn i wasn't talking about a girl in your bed and you having your way with her, i'm talking of this situation where it's clearly not a case of "she raped me".

 

[Lethul]

Seeing how some people's mind works in this thread. I'm not all that surprised that some rapist get out of jail free cards cause the girl apparently wore sexy clothes etc. Disgusting.

 

[tris-]

So I could jut say then that women dressing in sexy clothing and grinding on me in a nightclub deserve to be raped, because they put them selves in such a position. Ive trapped her down an alley, she has a skirt that goes up to her arse crack, tight top "no please dont rape me"

"sorry love, you want me to rape you? I think you do, taking in to account your provocative clothing and the way you grinded on me in the nightclub".