Bugzy learnt an important lesson today - popularity counts!

[old.Tohtori]

Some of them don't even learn from their mistakes, repeating them like some infinate stupidity loop.
You ever get the "But I've had more sex than you" defence? I always laugh at that one.

I usually reply with "Really? Let's count then..."

Being a metalhead(chicks just dig, no way round it), going out in bars when i want, having a dreamjob that pays for all needs and no kids is just..well...i'd say legen...but i'd have to wait a "knock on wood" while to say...dary!

Well no matter how much you try to tell a person in love that it wont last they will never listen. And I think that is a great thing. Love is one of the best things, imo.
It is the reason I get out of bed every day.

It might last or it might not - but you will have to live through it to learn from it. No matter what some forum gimps like us say, it is something that is to be learned from personal experince.
And how lovely that some still belive in love. So do I but I am also nothing more than a simple romanticist. ;->

I'm not saying "love isn't real", hell, no matter what many think, i'm still a romantic, hopeless even.

But i also know, that love is a small % of making things work in a relationship, and those who think "love conquers all problems", live in a fairydust land.

Love is great, love is wonderful, i hope all find love and someone who loves back, but basing life decicions and trying to keep a relationship working with love, not gonna happen. This, is what i like to preach to the youn'uns.

 

[Guest]

just get it up her arse before you goto whatever poncey uni you are going to, fuck sake, get drunk get a massive overdraft and get a degree, shag lots of girls


then , after that if she still takes it up the arse and isnt married or has t3486383 kids THEN marry her

 

[echome]

I'll stay in my "fairydust land" a bit longer.
The second I don't belive love will conquer all anymore, is the second I'll stop living.

I am only 22 and therefor has lot to experience still. But I am still too young to become bitter hehe.

 

[CorNokZ]

Bugz i piledrived your gf.

<insert qq>

LOL!!!

Major rep!

 

[old.Tohtori]

I'll stay in my "fairydust land" a bit longer.
The second I don't belive love will conquer all anymore, is the second I'll stop living.

I am only 22 and therefor has lot to experience still. But I am still too young to become bitter hehe.

Oh no no, don't get it wrong, it's nothing to do with being bitter

As i said, love is great and all, but many mistake that love can cure all in relationships, and that "i love you" fixes problems.

Without love, a relationship doesn't work, but relationship doesn't work on love alone.

That's the fundemental problem with many, not all, young relationships.

 

[Binky the Bomb]

I'll stay in my "fairydust land" a bit longer.
The second I don't belive love will conquer all anymore, is the second I'll stop living.

When that happens, just remember to get your whole head in front of the shotgun.

 

[Sparx]

Shame but it does really make a difference.

I'm quite lucky i'm one of the popular ones at work etc so i tend to get away with alot more than anyone else

 

[AngelHeal]

what team?

 

[tris-]

old before your time imo.

uni is about spending the first months loan on strippers and weed and living out the over draft, while paying for 360s and new tvs on a credit card you shouldnt even have.

thats what i did anyway, and it didnt cause any harm AND i had fun.

 

[Chronictank]

what team?

red team!

 

[Binky the Bomb]

red team!

NO, Blue team.

 

[Huntingtons]

Love is great, love is wonderful, i hope all find love and someone who loves back, but basing life decicions and trying to keep a relationship working with love, not gonna happen. This, is what i like to preach to the youn'uns.

well, you say the teens doesnt really matter in the end... so does this really matter. does it matter if he bases his young years on love for a girl he might not have en 1-2 years time? isnt that what its about?

Shame but it does really make a difference.

I'm quite lucky i'm one of the popular ones at work etc so i tend to get away with alot more than anyone else

giving head to 50 year old CEO's doesnt mean you're popular.

 

[AngelHeal]

NO, Blue team.

what team? Wildcats!!!!! lolzz

 

[Bugz]

I don't have the time nor the patience to sit here explaining my love life to you - nor do I care to do so. I find it quite funny to see the amount of attention it gets - considering I've never made a post explaining my love life nor telling you all about it but I admire the attention - it is rather sweet . Some of us are either very bitter that their relationships do not work out (which is a bitch ofcourse) or they are just lonely people looking for e-fights

But I will certainly drop those of you who care so much a line in 3-5 years and we can see where I stand!

Pessimist people are never disappointed but on the same level - they are never truly satisfied. A lot of you are like that - which is a shame - but it's your life's and I am not here to dictate them.

And interesting facts indeed Chronic - I never realized that was the case - makes me somewhat at ease anyway. Have you got a source by any chance so I can read up on it further?

Peace.

 

[Chronictank]

And interesting facts indeed Chronic - I never realized that was the case - makes me somewhat at ease anyway. Have you got a source by any chance so I can read up on it further?

Peace.

Guardian and Sunday times do league tables every year before applications,
just search by Highest Salaries, and Highest Job Uptake and you will see who is the current highest.

P.s. dont make silly jokes at the interview

They asked me "how did you find the campus and facilities", i replied "using a sat-nav"
he wasn't impressed at my attempt to break the ice

 

[old.Tohtori]

well, you say the teens doesnt really matter in the end... so does this really matter. does it matter if he bases his young years on love for a girl he might not have en 1-2 years time? isnt that what its about?

Now now, never said "teens don't matter" now did i? If it was implied, it wasn't meant to be.

As said, love is fine, but NOT the defining attribute and that should be learned as young as possible.

I frankly don't give two tosses if Bugz and Mrs. Bugz(rather poor sequel, just a bowtie on head) make it or not, i'm just pointing out something i've learned and it has nothing to do with pessimism or bitterness.

 

[Nate]

*yawns* Welcome to the competitive real world Bugz, you aren't going to win any medals if your ugly.

 

[old.Tohtori]

*yawns* Welcome to the competitive real world Bugz, you aren't going to win any medals if your ugly.

You should know

 

[Everz]

i won the ugly medal

 

[Bahumat]

i won the ugly medal

I won the "think's Tris looks like Mogli from Jungle book in his avatar photo" medal....was fucking hard to get that one!

 

[AngelHeal]

what damn team?! !111

if its a sport team consider this:

1 he didnt select you because you havent got the skills.
2 he didnt select you because you don't have the body/weight/lenght/brain.
3 he didnt select you not because you are the worst, but because there are others with higher potential.
4 the time you spent gaming.... you should be training?

if its a other team??

i dunno..never been part of a other team

and yes beeing accepted is really important for everyone in anyway.
But how often does accepted get reached by not beeing yourself?
And how bad do you want to be accepted if you cannot be yourself?


anyways... getting another pint

ps bugz: really sorry for u that u didnt make it

 

[AngelHeal]

*yawns* Welcome to the competitive real world Bugz, you aren't going to win any medals if your ugly.

xcuse me?

what about Yao from houston rockets.. he plays nba
Ang i doubt many girls wanne date a 50ft high chineese with firbolg head

 

[Nate]

You should know

burned

 

[Huntingtons]

Now now, never said "teens don't matter" now did i? If it was implied, it wasn't meant to be.

As said, love is fine, but NOT the defining attribute and that should be learned as young as possible.

I frankly don't give two tosses if Bugz and Mrs. Bugz(rather poor sequel, just a bowtie on head) make it or not, i'm just pointing out something i've learned and it has nothing to do with pessimism or bitterness.

you didnt in this thread but have in many others (sorry i wasnt clear on that). i wasnt being aggressive or pointing our bitterness or pessimism. just pointing out that its better he learns for himself than hes told by people. love isnt something you can just get explained and told, and then its all fine you need to experience it

 

[Bugz]

You guys must lead seriously boring life's if you are all so pessimistic. What do you say about those charming old couples you read of in the paper? Who meet up at 17/18 and stay with each other to 80-90?

Ololo - they must be lieing because we know all about love!

Get a grip. You cannot say 'this will happen - that will happen' - because love is random like that. Love may stab one of us in the face and may keep the other happy for all eternity.

Love is something special and if you are truly feeling the love, you will strive and hope for the relationship to last. Anyone who thinks differently lives in a very fucked up depressing world.

So, instead of thinking you know the low-down on the word love, remember that I am not you, you are not me and we are both not the person down the road, who may have been dumped by his gf after she had intercourse w/ his brother or may have lived with his missus for so many years, they both lose count.

Peace.

 

[Succi]

bugz im pretty sure your just an elaborate troll

 

[Raven]

But I will certainly drop those of you who care so much a line in 3-5 years and we can see where I stand!

You see this is where you are going wrong. You have absolutely no idea about the "real world" seriously, life does not work out as you expect. Your girlfriend will shag other men at Uni and to be fair so will you (women i expect) You may well learn to live at Uni yourself.


You may well get the results that you hope for but this does not mean you will get the job that you want. A mate of mine is a geneticist, spent years at college/uni etc yet i earn far more than him (probably more than most) and i left school with only a handful of GSCEs, way back when)

I am not saying qualifications mean nothing but these days an employer looks at more than your results.

 

[Raven]

Love is something special and if you are truly feeling the love, you will strive and hope for the relationship to last. Anyone who thinks differently lives in a very fucked up depressing world.

You are what? 16 now? How on earth do you know what love is, yes you may feel in love and yes you may well be in love but at such a young age you cannot understand the sort of lasting love that develops over years of being together. There is love that lasts a couple of years that you get over surprisingly quickly and there is the love that lasts for years (cheesy moment) i am more in love with my wife today than i was yesterday, when i was your age i was in love with some random bird (i cant even remember her name now) that i used to imagine getting married to, spending the rest of my life with etc.

Grow up mate, i don't mean that as an insult to the young, i mean live life a little then decide who you want to be with.


*may well be a drunken gibberish type post

 

[Binky the Bomb]

You guys must lead seriously boring life's if you are all so pessimistic. What do you say about those charming old couples you read of in the paper? Who meet up at 17/18 and stay with each other to 80-90?

Ololo - they must be lieing because we know all about love!

Get a grip. You cannot say 'this will happen - that will happen' - because love is random like that. Love may stab one of us in the face and may keep the other happy for all eternity.

Love is something special and if you are truly feeling the love, you will strive and hope for the relationship to last. Anyone who thinks differently lives in a very fucked up depressing world.

So, instead of thinking you know the low-down on the word love, remember that I am not you, you are not me and we are both not the person down the road, who may have been dumped by his gf after she had intercourse w/ his brother or may have lived with his missus for so many years, they both lose count.

Peace.

Man, this is so fucking refreshing.
Whoever feasts on your crushed soul will have one hell of a meal.

 

[Bugz]

You see this is where you are going wrong. You have absolutely no idea about the "real world" seriously, life does not work out as you expect. Your girlfriend will shag other men at Uni and to be fair so will you (women i expect) You may well learn to live at Uni yourself.


You may well get the results that you hope for but this does not mean you will get the job that you want. A mate of mine is a geneticist, spent years at college/uni etc yet i earn far more than him (probably more than most) and i left school with only a handful of GSCEs, way back when)

I am not saying qualifications mean nothing but these days an employer looks at more than your results.

TBH Raven - refer to my previous post.

I am not going to waste any more time trying to drum the situation into your heads. Call me every name under the sun for all I care but I stay in my relationships with optimistic attitudes and I do not care, nor want, 30-somethings telling me how my relationship is soon to brake down and why. You do not know me, you do not know my status, you do not know my situation. You assume my future based on the future of you and your friends. You choose to ignore the facts that contradict you and use only the things which elevate your points. I choose to approach the situation optimistically and nothing some cookies on a forum say will make me do otherwise.

I will let time do the talking.

Oh and we need Ez in this damn forum. I know she would agree with me.