being a teenager sucks

[Healer McHeal]

was? whadda ya mean was????

as much as i would love to be a bloke and run about with the pot noodle horn all day long i feel it my duty to inform you all that i am infact still a gal.



anyhoo hate to break it to you but it doesnt get any easier as you get older, it might actually get harder depending on past situations and how jaded you get.

i'm still miffed at that "was" comment btw.











*stalks off with cigar clenched between teeth to read jugs magazine, drink some beer, scratch random areas and fart alot*









questioning my femininity fgs god dammit bare faced cheek imo *burp* any fool can see im a sodding lady!!

lol , and Dark, semi in same situation me self, but mine has minor diffrent details , but only thing i can think of telling you to do is, if she means that much to ya, talk to her about it and see what she says, but do it at a time when she will actually be serious rather than just brush it off, so you have about a 1 in a million chance of finding that moment but meh , in any case, all you can do is either, punish your self (what i did), or just tell her you need a little bit of time to actually figure things out in your head, but no matter what you will always be friends with her (she should hopefully understand if you say that, no promises tho unfortunatly).

in any case, Goodluck with it, when it comes to females you need all the luck you can get for understanding what goes through there crazy minds, oh and who ever says males have a more dirty mind dont know enough females imo.

 

[Phooka]

was? whadda ya mean was????

as much as i would love to be a bloke and run about with the pot noodle horn all day long i feel it my duty to inform you all that i am infact still a gal!!

LoL yeah i meant the evul, selfish manipulative kind of girl... Ow nvm i take it back your still the same only a woman now... :touch:

 

[lilmissnaughty]

was? whadda ya mean was????
questioning my femininity fgs god dammit bare faced cheek imo *burp* any fool can see im a sodding lady!!

its ok ez.
just whip teh jubblies out.
then they will know.
never underestimate the power of jubblies.

 

[tris-]

its ok ez.
just whip teh jubblies out.

speaking of which, where the fuck is she!

EEZZZZZZZZ

 

[Equador]

That's not the reason

Oho seel, you amuse me so!

 

[tris-]

Ezzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

 

[Darksword]

kind of an update - ment to do this last night but got kicked in the balls in training so.

Well yesterday, ended up talking to her a bit, and was cool, just feels so easy talking to her and laughing, then at lunch ended up talking to hre for the whole time and was just really cool. Even tho i dont want to be it just, happens, i dunno. Both times she started talking to me and it just carried on, like couldnt stop it, not that i really wanted to just know it keeps making things harder .

then like after i was just sat about, and got talking to her again just after school and was in town with her and the conversation just feels so easy and joking about etc. Its so stupid, i wish something would happen between us, but i know it wont, and the more i talk to her the harder it gets, but when we get talking we get on, to use a cliche, like a house on fire.

 

[tris-]

same for me and a good friend of mine tbh. we both had feelings etc but she had a bf already.

in the end i decided to forcefully fuck up and told her we shouldnt be such good friends anymore.

it worked anyway. now we only talk on occasions which is still nice, it just doesnt have the hardness of emotions etc. takes a while to get over it though.

 

[Darksword]

same for me and a good friend of mine tbh. we both had feelings etc but she had a bf already.

in the end i decided to forcefully fuck up and told her we shouldnt be such good friends anymore.

it worked anyway. now we only talk on occasions which is still nice, it just doesnt have the hardness of emotions etc. takes a while to get over it though.

i tried that, said we shouldnt talk as often etc but meh. If things carry on this way, i'll try again.

 

[Garok]

As said before It pretty much happens to most people especially at the college Uni age. Like most emotions you get, when you know you can't have something, it gets more bareable as you go through life. Its just a case of coming to terms with the fact that sometimes things dont go your way but there is no need to get down about it becuase something good could be just around the corner.

I would also not go down the blunt route one method of "We can't be friends" becuase you can do that method just by not spending so much time together with out risking fubaring the firend ship and other frined ships. Thats the method I took spent more time around other women and found out that im not really attracted to people that aren't attracted to me. Friend of mine took the route one approach and got a rep as abit of a drama queen (ala not to attractive) keep a good rept with her and her friends and who knows who you might meet through them.

Getting rid of close female friends is a bad idea. Soo usefull when you need to get a womens perspective on certain things or just a female hug/attention when your own relationships go tits up.

Take my advice its important not to get too tied up with negative emotions. Learning to deal with them takes time though.

 

[Darksword]

[update]

dunno why, but, meh.

Well things changed for a bit and we got alot closer and i thought ok maybe somethings gunna happen here then, and now things changed back again and it fucking sucks. Shes pretty much just playing me when she is bored.

Now i need to get her to fuck off and leave me alone. I've considered the direct option but then i look like a drama queen, so, what should i do?

 

[Calaen]

Tbh mate if I knew the answer to that I wouldd be a millionaire, there are a lot of girls/women/ladies that will string a guy along for no other reason other than they can.

I feel your pain though, having feelings for someone that are not mutual is a massive kick in the stots.

 

[Darksword]

guys i need some help i cant stop talking to her, but i really want to now. HELP

 

[privacy]

Got the same problem mate got a friend im brilliant friends with and we both have feeling for each other but she feels that were too good friends and if it ever ended badly and she lost me as a friend it would kill her

u could always try thinkin of all the things u dont like about her when u feel the urge to talk to her , or find a friend who hates her! always makes it harder , other than that i have no ideas

but good luck hopefully one day it will all work out for the best

 

[Huntingtons]

of course own the album before you download, isnt that right IRMA? Sue me you muppets.

lol xD nice

 

[Ballard]

guys i need some help i cant stop talking to her, but i really want to now. HELP

Being rude probably isnt the way if its not in your nature. Maybe you could try hanging out with people she doesnt like, or anytime she wants to spend time with you just brush her off with something like Ive already got plans with so and so. good luck

 

[tris-]

i dont see the point in lieing.

but thats just me.

 

[Darksword]

i dont see the point in lieing.

but thats just me.

yeh, i dont want to lie to her. She does mean alot to me, and i do really like her, but i cant carry on like this. I know nothings going to happen, whethar its because she doesnt feel the same way or because we are such good friends, i dont know, i just cant carry on being this person.

Im going to try and just minimise contact with her, dunno waht im going to do tonight tho, going to our leaving ball and she is on my table. Ill try and sit away from her and keep occupied with my other friends.

 

[Calaen]

tbh I cant see why your making such an effort to avoid the girl, you say your good friends, tbh Id take a good friend over anyone, they are hard to find. I think it would be foolish on your behalf to break contact with this girl.

Love can take years to grow just relax let the relationship go where it is going to go you. Just remember what Phil Collins said You cant hurry Love!!!

 

[tris-]

he also said she'll take youe heart and you wont feel it!