been cheated on ?

[Olgaline]

Have no clue if this is old to some of you....
A mate gave the link, guessing it is old, but then enjoy or re-enjoy

Ultimate Revenge on Ex*Video

 

[Lamp]

I opened a bag of peanut M&Ms and got chocolate M&Ms instead. I felt cheated. Does that count ?

 

[CorNokZ]

I opened a bag of peanut M&Ms and got chocolate M&Ms instead. I felt cheated. Does that count ?

Yeah, but you can't fuck its mom

 

[old.Tohtori]

Yeah, but you can't fuck its mom

Weeeell....

Yeah it's old as f*ck, still fun. Though it's a bit long for a joke.

I've been cheated on, but i usually don't fuss it if they tell me. If i find out myself, i'm more disappointed that she didn't feel comfortable telling me.

 

[Lamp]

I've been cheated on, but i usually don't fuss it if they tell me. If i find out myself, i'm more disappointed that she didn't feel comfortable telling me.

Yeah, there's some truth to that. But it still sucks whether she tells you or you find out yourself. Eventually u get over it.

Someone who cheats on you was never meant to be yours anyway. Best way to look on it. Move on and find someone decent.

 

[old.Tohtori]

Yeah, there's some truth to that. But it still sucks whether she tells you or you find out yourself. Eventually u get over it.

Someone who cheats on you was never meant to be yours anyway. Best way to look on it. Move on and find someone decent.

Yeah it's all dependant really, of the people, of the feelings etc.

But my way of thinking has always been more the like of..umm...well, as long as she comes home after her fun.

If she's so determined to f*ck someone, and i know people like other people, if only for physical side, then let her 'ave it. I personally would never cheat(unless i find a woman who thinks like me), but if you need to, then be honest and i'm cool.

Basically "Can i go f*ck that big guy?" will suffice for me.

As long as it's safe, in a safe enviroment etc and she doesn't get emotional about it.

Now if someone cheated me emotionally, get bored of me and just hang around until something better comes, then i'm not a nice guy.

 

[Lamp]

100% loyalty for me, I'm afraid.

 

[CorNokZ]

If my gf cheats on me, she's out.. Simple as that

 

[Olgaline]

Yeah it's all dependant really, of the people, of the feelings etc.

But my way of thinking has always been more the like of..umm...well, as long as she comes home after her fun.

If she's so determined to f*ck someone, and i know people like other people, if only for physical side, then let her 'ave it. I personally would never cheat(unless i find a woman who thinks like me), but if you need to, then be honest and i'm cool.

Basically "Can i go f*ck that big guy?" will suffice for me.

As long as it's safe, in a safe enviroment etc and she doesn't get emotional about it.

Now if someone cheated me emotionally, get bored of me and just hang around until something better comes, then i'm not a nice guy.

I Really do get what your getting at here, or well i get your line of thought.
and I'd love to say that i would react that way if she was honest and open about it, i really would love to be that guy.

But truthfully ?
If she cheats on me, in any way shape or form? she'll be history!

I'd also submit tho' that some, not all men, take that stance of "tolerrance" for them to easierly detect cheating "if you catch my drift" becuase, to a guy, Nothing is worse to your ego than being trashed for someone els, in the other senario you at least "seem to keep some sence of control" and thefore you dont apear to be quite as rejected by your peers.. just a theory tho

dono if i really explained that last bit as i wanted to... :/

 

[old.Tohtori]

I Really do get what your getting at here, or well i get your line of thought.
and I'd love to say that i would react that way if she was honest and open about it, i really would love to be that guy.

But truthfully ?
If she cheats on me, in any way shape or form? she'll be history!

I'd also submit tho' that some, not all men, take that stance of "tolerrance" for them to easierly detect cheating "if you catch my drift" becuase, to a guy, Nothing is worse to your ego than being trashed for someone els, in the other senario you at least "seem to keep some sence of control" and thefore you dont apear to be quite as rejected by your peers.. just a theory tho

dono if i really explained that last bit as i wanted to... :/

Kind of basically saying, "This way, you know you're going to be cheated on, but atleast you got some control of it". Or sorta that wya, i get your point and it's a good point.

To me, personally, it's more about the fundamental belief of letting people do exactly what they want. I could never be a, well, military leader or a dictator as an example, simply 'cause i believe that the freedom of doing what you want, as long as it's not harmful to others, should be given to all.

It's a bit more complex, but in a nutshell.

And since, i believe that way, it doesn't hurt me if they do cheat, as long as it's "honest" cheating, and thus is freedom of choice and still not harmful. Also, i believe that when "cheating" becomes agreed upon, it's no longer cheating, but more of...well...agreement of partial intimacy transfer?

 

[Olgaline]

Also, i believe that when "cheating" becomes agreed upon, it's no longer cheating, but more of...well...agreement of partial intimacy transfer?

Yes I'll buy that, i would however argue that for tho's kind of agrements to work [In General] in the long run it has to be entered in by "equals" otherwise you end up with an agreement that only benifits one half, and as such you might find a high chance/potential for jelousy.

 

[Gamah]

If my GF cheated on me shes out.

 

[old.Tohtori]

Yes I'll buy that, i would however argue that for tho's kind of agrements to work [In General] in the long run it has to be entered in by "equals" otherwise you end up with an agreement that only benifits one half, and as such you might find a high chance/potential for jelousy.

Yeah you can't have one running about and say the other has to be loyal.

Jealousy is so, useless that i haven't felt it in...heck...ages. Don't know why, but never have been a jealous type at all. In anything really.

But even as it is, i'd be more concerned about a woman finding someone else and me getting stuck with the bill if it wasn't mutual. Even if i wouldn't necessarily act on it.

 

[Gamah]

So, basically, what your saying seel is..if you get a gf I can come over and insert my pork into her bun whilst your in the next room.

 

[old.Tohtori]

So, basically, what your saying seel is..if you get a gf I can come over and insert my pork into her bun whilst your in the next room.

Well, if she would want to do something about it, yes. But i'd never date a woman who'd be interested in you

Also, there's a difference in being able to go have "one night stands" and my friends trying to hit on my girl because of it.

 

[tris-]

if my hand cheats on me, shes getting chopped off. simple as that imo, im not having her go around wanking off other blokes when ever she likes. even if its just a physical thing.