Are you getting enough sex ?

Are you getting enough sex ?


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old.Tohtori

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Well, to return to another thread, i don't really need sex to survive so i'd say yes.
 

old.Tohtori

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Maslow says you do...

Well you and maslow can go drink your irish scotch all you want and even form a primitive wank circle for all i care.

A: Reproduction and sex are different things.
B: I don't need to reproduce to survive.

Not to mention you took that totally out of context as far as surviving, or even sexual needs go.
 

DocWolfe

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Physiological needs
The physiological needs of the organism (those enabling homeostasis) take first precedence. These consist mainly of:

<-- Money
Eating
Drinking
Sleeping
Reproduction

Editted slightly
 

Overdriven

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Don't need it to live, but I get enough throughout the year to say I do it. 2 years ago (Till about last october) it was ALOT.. Mainly because of living with the GF.


EDIT: Heeeeeeh. New title.. Wonder how many posts it is.
 

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You'll never know (since the POSTCOUNT has been removed)

(thanks mods)
 

Olgaline

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Love/Belonging/Social needs
After physiological and safety needs are fulfilled, the third layer of human needs is social. The psychological aspect of Maslow's hierarchy. This involves emotionally-based relationships in general, such as:

friendship
sexual intimacy
having a supportive and communicative family
 

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*looks round to check wife not in same room*

In my days of sin (vodka, cocaine, ciggies, weed, hookers, shopping sprees, curries, chocolate, and eventually quitting work to take up this evil lifestyle full time), I was shacked up with this bird for 3 years. I had so much sex - 4 or 5 times pretty much every single day (except days when she was on the blob - and even then, we still did it if she was up for it) that I would sometimes get a sore willy. But I still wouldn't classify even those days as "too much". Ah, the good old days.
 

old.Tohtori

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Olgaline, even if they are labeled as needs, the needs there are not "for survival", they are towards desires.

Needs for survival like air, food, water...those are REAL needs.
 

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What about instinct ? Take the humble mayfly. It lives for 24 hours. Its sole purpose of being born is to procreate. Born. Eat. Shag. Die. It doesn't know any different. Humans do. Of course, some people say that the main purpose of man is to father children, but we have a choice.

Did you know that the clitoris's only purpose is pleasure ?
 

Olgaline

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Olgaline, even if they are labeled as needs, the needs there are not "for survival", they are towards desires.

Needs for survival like air, food, water...those are REAL needs.

well according to maslow.
Maslow's theory contended that as humans meet 'basic needs', they seek to satisfy successively 'higher needs' that occupy a set hierarchy.

so your right, but "sex" is actually listed more than once, so it depends on in what function it derives, since physically you cant really repoduce without having "sex" but sex also serves a need higher up on the perimid as a social/acceptance need.

but /shrug in some ways with modern tech. i guess you could agrue you dont "need sex" to repoduce and thus may not have any use for it.

i dono, i personally belive we "at least guys" have a natural instictive drive to seek out sex.
 

old.Tohtori

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i dono, i personally belive we "at least guys" have a natural instictive drive to seek out sex.

Some guys do, some seek only it, some don't have the "must" meed for it.

And noone, except you, talked about reproducing.

I talked about "surviving", which I can do well without sex.

You're talking about survival of species, which on this question, has nothing the f*ck to do with it.
 

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You don't need sex these days to have babies. Technology can get around that. But you need eggs and sperm. (I was gonna say eggs and bacon LOL)
 

Olgaline

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well until reasently reproducion & sex were one and the same "act", it isnt any more.
and no your absolutly right you dont need it to survive, but some would still argue that sex is a primal instinctive need, "that we are driven by a "unconciouse need" to repoduce, and to do that you have to seek out sex.

so depends what spin you put on it really
 

old.Tohtori

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well until reasently reproducion & sex were one and the same "act", it isnt any more.

Well recently, this is a recent poll, about recent needs of recent sex.

F'ck me...

Yeah, there's a primal instinct to have sex, but that doesn't mean you HAVE to have sex.
 

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Toht... I know, and damn well would bet my life on that there are THREE scenarios you would NEVER turn down sex.

Sympathy laying there naked = One
Karma laying there naked = Two
Compassion laying there naked = Three

:D
 

old.Tohtori

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Toht... I know, and damn well would bet my life on that there are THREE scenarios you would NEVER turn down sex.

Sympathy laying there naked = One
Karma laying there naked = Two
Compassion laying there naked = Three

:D

Denial OD, Denial...not compassion :p

Compassion is in the family of Sympathy, quite related.

Also yes, quite right :D
 

Overdriven

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Denial OD, Denial...not compassion :p

Compassion is in the family of Sympathy, quite related.

Also yes, quite right :D


Dammit, that's the one I keep forgeting. Not had a visit from Denial in quite a while :( Karma I have, and "who shall not be named" I got a visit from 10m ago.

Shaved.. Slipped a bit, ended up cutting the bit above my top lip half off (Got distracted) so had to shave the rest of it off (Keeping teh uber beard) - Stupid "who can not be named" :(
 

old.Tohtori

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Dammit, that's the one I keep forgeting. Not had a visit from Denial in quite a while :( Karma I have, and "who shall not be named" I got a visit from 10m ago.

Shaved.. Slipped a bit, ended up cutting the bit above my top lip half off (Got distracted) so had to shave the rest of it off (Keeping teh uber beard) - Stupid "who can not be named" :(

You do mean "you know who" there don't ya :D

EAsy to forget these, especially if they are relatively new "friends".

Interesting though, haven't had one of those done to me by "you know who" in a long while...rather nasty :D
 

Overdriven

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You do mean "you know who" there don't ya :D

EAsy to forget these, especially if they are relatively new "friends".

Interesting though, haven't had one of those done to me by "you know who" in a long while...rather nasty :D

"you know who" "who can not be named" Same person in my current mindset tbh =(

"You know who" is going to cause me 3 weeks of being mocked IRL :(
 

old.Tohtori

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"You know who" is going to cause me 3 weeks of being mocked IRL :(

Atleast you don't have to worry about "you know who" for a while, and that's a rather lenient thing for...for...umm...dang, i forgot why i contacted her... :D
 

Bugz

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Sex is good - if you don't like/want sex you're a moron.

Let's just keep it at that! ;)
 

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