So, i fucked up.

[fettoken]

The woman i have been seeing for almost a year now got a message via Facebook from an angry crazy bitch that i had been involved with previously. So, i was caught lying and writing some inappropriate things and now this might be the end of it.
Yes, i had been unfaithful, but it didn't mean anything, of course that's not the way she sees it. Obviously.

Do i never learn. I can't blame it on being a male with needs can i? Because of society and all? Well, needless to say this feels shitty, i feel shitty for betraying her confidence.

Also, fucking Facebook. It will get you caught sooner or later if you are up to no good. Might get rid of that shit.

 

[caLLous]

Serious answer: Or knock the cheating bit on the head instead?

Less serious answer: Buy her a flat lol?

 

[Zarjazz]

Less serious answer: Buy her a flat lol?

Even less serious answer:


View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2g5Hz17C4is

 

[Moriath]

Man if you want to stay with someone these days you have to be faithful or amish.

No details on how what or why. But in the same city / social setting it aint gonna work. Join that maddison website

 

[fettoken]

Serious answer: Or knock the cheating bit on the head instead?

Yeah. This is it. You end up ruining everything and for what, nothing.

Less serious answer: Buy her a flat lol?

Well, we were about to move into a new apartment that i bought. Sad lols.

 

[fettoken]

Man if you want to stay with someone these days you have to be faithful or amish.

No details on how what or why. But in the same city / social setting it aint gonna work. Join that maddison website

Yeah tell me about it. Oh and no more dating apps/websites. Had enough of that for one lifetime.

 

[Raven]

The old saying, if you can't do the time, don't do the crime.

In future if you are with someone you want to be with, do not cheat on her/him. If you want to cheat then breakup with them.

 

[Edmond]

Yes, i had been unfaithful, but it didn't mean anything, of course that's not the way she sees it. Obviously.

I think the way she see's it is the same way most people see it. Saying 'oh it didn't mean anything' is bollocks, if you loved and cared for her you wouldn't have done it in the first place, there is obviously something wrong with the relationship if you felt the need to dabble elsewhere.

You've fucked up, chalk it up as a fail and move on

Sorry, don't mean to sound harsh, but i've been on the other side, no sympathy i'm afraid

 

[Edmond]

The old saying, if you can't do the time, don't do the crime.

In future if you are with someone you want to be with, do not cheat on her/him. If you want to cheat then breakup with them.

This.....

 

[Edmond]

Yeah tell me about it. Oh and no more dating apps/websites. Had enough of that for one lifetime.

Why are you even using dating websites/apps if you're in a relationship with someone?

 

[~Yuckfou~]

0800 Jeremy Kyle

 

[DaGaffer]

Why are you even using dating websites/apps if you're in a relationship with someone?

Because he's young. Next question.

 

[fettoken]

Why are you even using dating websites/apps if you're in a relationship with someone?

I meant i were using them before we met and that it was the last time.

Also, no response from her as we had that talk at her place and she said i should probably leave for tonight.

So, at home now. My odds aren't looking great.

 

[Wij]

You are letting your willy do the thinking. Stop it.

 

[fettoken]

I will not let it again. Well, she says she cannot trust me again, and it was the hardest thing in her life ever, and she said she might feel different in days, months, a year, she doesn't know. This is officially the shittiest day ever.

 

[Calaen]

Facebook or not, you were only with her a year but still cheated on her? You sound like a cunt.

 

[Bodhi]

I do have some sympathy as I'm not entirely sure that man evolved to cope with monogamy, fairly certain I read somewhere that through the ages we've had many sexual partners, and monogamy is a fairly recent thing.

However if you're with the right person and you love them, I'm struggling to see that as a justification. I've been with Mrs Bodhi for 5.5 years now, and even though the opportunity has presented itself, the temptation hasn't, as no matter how much she does my head in (and believe me she does), I just couldn't do that to her. If you were only seeing her then there would be more wiggle room (bad pun intended), but in a committed relationship? Nope, couldn't go there.

 

[Urgat]

As someone who has been on the other end of cheating... its a fucking shitty thing to do.

Its hard for me to sympathise with you I am afraid.

Chalk it up to a lesson learned, and hope no one ever does it to you.

 

[Yoni]

I'm of the opinion that firstly it is not a 'male' issue so all this blaming your penis is nonsense so just stop that!

Secondly people 'make mistakes' for many reasons and before stones are thrown this should be considered....

After all that is said Fet you are a prize idiot... However you do not seem to be alone in Stockholm... Several of my employees have screwed up great relationships by hooking up on their front doorsteps (both men and women)... However they are all between the ages of 25 to 32....

 

[Gwadien]

Yeah, blaming your penis, women, Facebook, etc is kinda dodging the problem.

You're the problem.

Go fucking, get it out of your system, then search again, or repair.

 

[old.user4556]

You have two options to win her back:

1) buy her shoes
2) cut her grass

Let me know how it goes.

 

[Gwadien]

Second option.

 

[caLLous]

Depends what colour her skin is though, right?

 

[old.user4556]

Yes, i had been unfaithful

Out of curiosity, what did you do?

 

[Wij]

Out of curiosity, what did you do?

Tops and fingers?

 

[Scouse]

Out of curiosity, what did you do?

Deep deep anal. With her dad.

 

[fettoken]

Tops and fingers?

Something like that actually. Tried denying but there was stone cold evidence provided.

You have two options to win her back:

1) buy her shoes
2) cut her grass

Let me know how it goes.

I tried begging and crying like a little girl. We told eachother we loved one another, she said she couldn't see me for an unknown amount of time due to being so broken and down.

 

[Moriath]

U had photos taken of your infidelity?

 

[Wij]

Something like that actually. Tried denying but there was stone cold evidence provided

sticky fingers?

 

[Himse]

sticky fingers?

I think more smelly fingers