Need help.

[Overdriven]

1) I'm not going to remember this when I wake up, I'm pretty much so mentally gone I can just about type. (Perfectly, aswell)


I've been broken up with my 2 year girlfriend for allmost exactly a month now. Since we broke up I've been seeing my ex (before her) and just going out with her and my best friend getting drunk (No sex or anything).

I've come back tonight after getting purposely drunk, just so I can stop thinking. But it's made it worse.

I've texted my ex (one I've just broken up with) on my broken phone trying to say I still love and need her... Yet, I know we're better off apart. Though, in 5 years I know that we'd be perfect together as we both want the same thing.

My issue is, what do I do?

Do I do nothing till the next time we eventually see eachother? Do I try and forget her? Do I just try and ignore everything and carry on like I usually do?

If it wasn't for my computer addiction (yes, I slowly got over it, but then got addicted again DAoC Emulation Development) we'd still be together, we'd still speak properly.. BUT, I wouldn't be out every other day having fun with random people. I see pros and I see cons.


By the way, yes. I know I'm 19, yes my parent has told me I grow up too fast, yes I know what I want when I'm older (atleast in career mode) but.. I don't know what to do.

She is literally perfect for me, smart - beautiful (regardless of what idiots say) and she actually helped me... yet... Urgh.


Just want somebody to give me a proper opinion, not to suck up or help because "I'm your friend" - Just tell me what you all think..


About to fall unconcious,


Jason.

 

[Overdriven]

"Will you love in in 5 years and have a family with me in 5 years?"

"I thought my persistence with the relationship even when it was at its worse would have answered that. Yes"



Yes, I'm still around. Yes, I asked it. Yes, I'm not dead yet.

 

[tris-]

my answer is the same for everyone in this situation - do what you think is best for your self. in the end your the only one who will always be there.

 

[Escape]

Are you saying you want to be with her, but DAoC won't let you?

Dude, think of people with real problems.

 

[Trem]

I would go with the wij approach - punch her in the fucking face. Bitch!

Or the smell my balls approach, both are good and sure fire winners.

What was the question again?

 

[tris-]

I would go with the wij approach - punch her in the fucking face. Bitch!

Or the smell my balls approach, both are good and sure fire winners.

What was the question again?

whats the best way to tell your sister youve just fucked your mum

 

[Wij]

whats the best way to tell your sister youve just fucked your mum

Just after you've shot your bolt in her mouth so she can't answer back.

 

[Trem]

My sister is my mum

 

[Wij]

My sister is my mum

Lucky bastard

 

[Trem]

In all seriousness my mum is a slapper

 

[dysfunction]

Find someone else.

 

[Trem]

But shes my mum/sister, are you still allowed to choose another?

 

[evzy]

Trying to get back to a serious note ...

You split up for a reason - whatever that is - it needs addressing before its even worth considering getting back together...

My personal feeling though - never go back.

You are only 19 - I thought at that age every relationship was the one - and believe me I went through a few after that even - I dont mean to be condescending saying that - its purely my personal experience and now I look back on stuff from 10-15yrs ago I can only laugh at how much I thought that they would be "the one"...

Chalk it up as a life experience and take that knowledge forward and into your next relationship tbh..

 

[evzy]

In all seriousness my mum is a slapper

Tell me about it!

~goes off to get that special cream again~

 

[Ch3tan]

But shes my mum/sister, are you still allowed to choose another?

If the other is fitter, yes.

 

[Trem]

Excellent I have had my eye on my uncle for quite some time now.

 

[TdC]

poor Overdriven. all that heartache and then Trem's uncle

 

[Overdriven]

Escape, wasn't because of DAoC - I gave up playing that a while ago, it was just computer based stuff.


No idea honestly, sober now and actually remembering what I said over the phone... Fun.

 

[Trem]

I think mine and Wijs replies will help you.

 

[throdgrain]

FS ! A Dear Dierdre thread and I missed it!!

 

[dysfunction]

FS ! A Dear Dierdre thread and I missed it!!

Noob!

 

[Deacan]

Turning to a gaming forum for women troubles, rather ironic no?

 

[dysfunction]

Yes...

There has been some good advice given on these forums in the past....

 

[throdgrain]

But not by me!!