Karl
Fledgling Freddie
- Joined
- Jan 18, 2006
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Me and My Girlfriend had an argument last night,
She got drunk, as usual, and phoned me started shouting at me about various things that happened about a year ago... (We broke up for 3 months and in that time i got slightly involved with another girl)
When i broke up with her i was certain that i was making the right decision, then i changed my mind and resolved the things between us... now that we are back together for nearly a year she still cant trust me, she still goes off on one to me about it, and wont let it lie...
Now she just sent me this text...
"Im sorry. im struggling to think of what to say. Its hard over TXT,
do you want me? do you love me? do you need me like i need you?
and do you believe whith the whole of your hear that i am the one 4 u"
Now....
Do i want her? Yes, i think, not when she is drunk or angry
Do i love her? Yes i think so atleast, I did... but now our relationship is just constant nagging.
Do i NEED her? No... im the sort of person who can happily see himself through.
Do i believe with all of my heart that she is the 1? No... not anymore... she could be but im dont know.
So... should I lie.... Yes i need/want/love/believe and then she will be happy for a time and things between me and her may start to get better... but i dont know if thats going to happen unless she stops drinking and starts trusting me... which she cant seem to do...
Or... should i tell her the truth which would inevitably end up with us breaking up most likley and then im worried about her and if she would start drinking more / hurt herself.
Anybody out there got some sort of infinite wisdom they can give to me??
Help!!
She got drunk, as usual, and phoned me started shouting at me about various things that happened about a year ago... (We broke up for 3 months and in that time i got slightly involved with another girl)
When i broke up with her i was certain that i was making the right decision, then i changed my mind and resolved the things between us... now that we are back together for nearly a year she still cant trust me, she still goes off on one to me about it, and wont let it lie...
Now she just sent me this text...
"Im sorry. im struggling to think of what to say. Its hard over TXT,
do you want me? do you love me? do you need me like i need you?
and do you believe whith the whole of your hear that i am the one 4 u"
Now....
Do i want her? Yes, i think, not when she is drunk or angry
Do i love her? Yes i think so atleast, I did... but now our relationship is just constant nagging.
Do i NEED her? No... im the sort of person who can happily see himself through.
Do i believe with all of my heart that she is the 1? No... not anymore... she could be but im dont know.
So... should I lie.... Yes i need/want/love/believe and then she will be happy for a time and things between me and her may start to get better... but i dont know if thats going to happen unless she stops drinking and starts trusting me... which she cant seem to do...
Or... should i tell her the truth which would inevitably end up with us breaking up most likley and then im worried about her and if she would start drinking more / hurt herself.
Anybody out there got some sort of infinite wisdom they can give to me??
Help!!