I would love a decent server running HQ/DOM & TDM in Hardcore & Killcam enabled...but NO S&D....I just can't see the fun of spectating for a minute or 2 if you die early in S&D...which always seems to end up as a simple sneak around last man standing affair on publics.
HQ & DOM give you objectives without too much hanging around being dead...and KillCam enabled means you don't get too much hanging around in corners camping/sniping (or if they do you can hunt them down and exact a sweet revenge